connect with a god, preferably your guardian, if you don't know it, it could even be with one that you are very attracted to, sigil, name, photos of the deity, everything is worth considering.
doing a ritual telling them about your needs, thanking them, venting, asking for help, taking him by your side and always honoring the image of god, there are so many things that help in the relationship.
and not only find yourself, but eventually reach your maximum potential, have a sincere friendship and an absurd ally by your side.
of course, your own effort must always come.