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On polygamy

My boyfriend and I have been together for more than the two years now. I love him very much and I am really happy with him. I always try to make him feel good and give him the respect he deserves.

My problem is that despite this, I am attracted to another man. Although I love my boyfriend very much, I cannot lie to myself and say that he is the only one who attracts me.

In the store where I work, a man comes in from time to time. He always treats me kindly and is always affable to me, and this has led me to have an attraction to him.

Is this normal? Is polygamy right? In a Satanic world, would it be accepted?
 
Polygamy is a normal thing. You need to talk to your boyfriend about it, he should know this.
 
Some people highly reject polygamy. For Polygamy you either need a correct natal chart, or you have to be very advanced with a higher understanding, but your partner also. I'm also sure you won't like if your boyfriend would kiss another girl and buy her flowers.

A relationship can also be damaged because of polygamy. I myself, I don't recommend, but the decision is in your hand obviously.
 
AskSatanOperator said:
On polygamy

My boyfriend and I have been together for more than the two years now. I love him very much and I am really happy with him. I always try to make him feel good and give him the respect he deserves.

My problem is that despite this, I am attracted to another man. Although I love my boyfriend very much, I cannot lie to myself and say that he is the only one who attracts me.

In the store where I work, a man comes in from time to time. He always treats me kindly and is always affable to me, and this has led me to have an attraction to him.

Is this normal? Is polygamy right? In a Satanic world, would it be accepted?
This sounds more like infidelity. A crush about a person you have no idea about.

He just treats you nicely and now you're deciding if you're polygamous? Do you even know the guy? Maybe he just wants tips. Maybe he treats everyone kindly but isn't interested, especially in a polygamous relationship.

You sound emotionally immature imo and calling it polygamy. If we thought like you did. Every person who's in a relationship who finds a girl or man in the mall or supermarket hot is polygamous at this point.

The reason you're questioning this is not because you're genuinely asking about polygamy. You just want a pass card for having this crush.
 
mercury_wisdom said:
AskSatanOperator said:
On polygamy

My boyfriend and I have been together for more than the two years now. I love him very much and I am really happy with him. I always try to make him feel good and give him the respect he deserves.

My problem is that despite this, I am attracted to another man. Although I love my boyfriend very much, I cannot lie to myself and say that he is the only one who attracts me.

In the store where I work, a man comes in from time to time. He always treats me kindly and is always affable to me, and this has led me to have an attraction to him.

Is this normal? Is polygamy right? In a Satanic world, would it be accepted?
This sounds more like infidelity. A crush about a person you have no idea about.

He just treats you nicely and now you're deciding if you're polygamous? Do you even know the guy? Maybe he just wants tips. Maybe he treats everyone kindly but isn't interested, especially in a polygamous relationship.

You sound emotionally immature imo and calling it polygamy. If we thought like you did. Every person who's in a relationship who finds a girl or man in the mall or supermarket hot is polygamous at this point.

The reason you're questioning this is not because you're genuinely asking about polygamy. You just want a pass card for having this crush.

You should have worded this better and less harsh. This person's case, at least the way they are writing it, sounds like a genuine case of polygamous attraction.
 
TheWhiteGiant said:
You should have worded this better and less harsh. This person's case, at least the way they are writing it, sounds like a genuine case of polygamous attraction.

No, I can agree with mercury_wisdom.
While it is polygamous attraction, it's nowhere near as serious as it should be for polygamy, and I highly doubt it would work.
Polygamy only works in highly advanced relationships, or somewhere, where polygamy is normal.
 
TheWhiteGiant said:
mercury_wisdom said:
AskSatanOperator said:
On polygamy

My boyfriend and I have been together for more than the two years now. I love him very much and I am really happy with him. I always try to make him feel good and give him the respect he deserves.

My problem is that despite this, I am attracted to another man. Although I love my boyfriend very much, I cannot lie to myself and say that he is the only one who attracts me.

In the store where I work, a man comes in from time to time. He always treats me kindly and is always affable to me, and this has led me to have an attraction to him.

Is this normal? Is polygamy right? In a Satanic world, would it be accepted?
This sounds more like infidelity. A crush about a person you have no idea about.

He just treats you nicely and now you're deciding if you're polygamous? Do you even know the guy? Maybe he just wants tips. Maybe he treats everyone kindly but isn't interested, especially in a polygamous relationship.

You sound emotionally immature imo and calling it polygamy. If we thought like you did. Every person who's in a relationship who finds a girl or man in the mall or supermarket hot is polygamous at this point.

The reason you're questioning this is not because you're genuinely asking about polygamy. You just want a pass card for having this crush.

You should have worded this better and less harsh. This person's case, at least the way they are writing it, sounds like a genuine case of polygamous attraction.
This is all but poligamy. Nowadays poligamy is the new trend. Want to fuck someone that isn't your partner? It's poligamy!
The younger generation doesn't understand that having a partner entails exclusivity and responsability in these matters. Op is still immature regarding relationships, and just has a crush on a random boy, while in a relationship. If op really loved his partner? Then this would not be happening or rather she would understand that things like this should be under the control of her mind, and not:"see hot boy, wanna fuck, I'm in a relationship? And so what, it's pologamy!!"

Poligamy is used as an excuse to cheat since it's now a trend.
 
Yeah there is nothing wrong with polygamy but ONLY A FEW PEOPLE HAVE IT, most of the so called polygamy people are either young and stupid and don't know what they want from life or porn addicted freaks.
Please for the love of Gods don't ruin you relationship by doing some dumb action, just think for a second, would you really entertain the thought of your boyfriend riding other womens?!
 
mercury_wisdom said:
AskSatanOperator said:
On polygamy

My boyfriend and I have been together for more than the two years now. I love him very much and I am really happy with him. I always try to make him feel good and give him the respect he deserves.

My problem is that despite this, I am attracted to another man. Although I love my boyfriend very much, I cannot lie to myself and say that he is the only one who attracts me.

In the store where I work, a man comes in from time to time. He always treats me kindly and is always affable to me, and this has led me to have an attraction to him.

Is this normal? Is polygamy right? In a Satanic world, would it be accepted?
This sounds more like infidelity. A crush about a person you have no idea about.

He just treats you nicely and now you're deciding if you're polygamous? Do you even know the guy? Maybe he just wants tips. Maybe he treats everyone kindly but isn't interested, especially in a polygamous relationship.

You sound emotionally immature imo and calling it polygamy. If we thought like you did. Every person who's in a relationship who finds a girl or man in the mall or supermarket hot is polygamous at this point.

The reason you're questioning this is not because you're genuinely asking about polygamy. You just want a pass card for having this crush.
Men it scares me seeing SS who should be the top of the people coming with things like this like for real, why are people telling them straight that she can multiple boyfriend's without even knowing the situation behind it...
 
Obviously the OP should have known themselves and their preferences better before entering a relationship but the point still stands that they could still either be a real polygamous individual, or a person who is simply non committing and has to know who they really are.

There's no need to form some sort of emotional reaction over things like this when answering, or bash ppl with offended remarks by calling them immature or whatever, just because maybe you have had sth like this happen to you in the past.

The correct course of action is to calmly and objectively view the situation and answer, with respect to the individual.

The way some of you behave can actually drive people away from here, you know.
 
Weassel said:
Men it scares me seeing SS who should be the top of the people coming with things like this like for real, why are people telling them straight that she can multiple boyfriend's without even knowing the situation behind it...
Answering just the question and not going any further, yes polygamy is real. The situation of her though, it can also be emotional immaturity. So, don't be so dramatic about it.
 
Polygamy is having multiple long-term relationships going at the same time. Being attracted to someone while in a relationship is nothing to do with polygamy.
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Satan

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