Question #1865: Help with a neglectful person

[AskSatanOperator]

I have a friend who is totally undisciplined and negligent, she misses school almost ALWAYS, just at the beginning of this year she had problems with the guardianship council because of school absences, about meditation she keeps stopping and coming back, in her birth chart there is only the fire element, can it be something related to this? In the past she was almost expelled for fighting at school. I want to help her and I don't want to abandon her (although it seems like a lost cause), once we did a laziness spell on her and she stopped in the middle of the spell with less than 20 days to go and she stopped. What instructions can I give to a person like this? I believe she is too stingy to come and ask on her own on this forum, I converted her to Satanism about 2 years ago, she is not entirely to blame for her actions, she had a difficult childhood with poverty and an aggressive mother, help me to help her please

 

[Sungio13]

It sounds like she's gone through a lot and is struggling to overcome socioeconomic traumas she's endured in her life. It's definitely a tough situation, but as you know, something that we Spiritual Satanists can persevere through.

Having you as a friend is already a blessing because not only can you help with mental support when she needs it, there is always an option to Spiritually support her if need be.

Full Disclosure: this is not a permanent solution, she'll still need to eventually to figure out how to take care of herself, hopefully with a nice connection with the Gods.

But moving on, you can do a protective working for her. You can clean and protect her aura with the ALGIZ rune just as you would clean and protect your own for 40 days. You can start whenever or use these next power dates: July 20th or July 21st.

This should give her a boost to help her not "go down the drain" so to speak, and will work wonders if she couples this with consistent meditation; at the very least she needs to be cleaning and protecting her aura as well.

During the working, gauge how she's been feeling, doing, and if progress on her part is being made. This is just a start and I hope this works for you guys. It's never awesome to know that sometimes there's people in our lives we can only do so much for, and therefore we have to move on from. I hope this isn't the case for your friend. Good luck.

 

[Henu the Great]

The hard truth: She can't be helped if she does not want to help herself. If she is down to getting serious with growth and removing herself from the situation she is in then she can effectively be helped (you would boost her progress), otherwise the energy spent on her is more or less wasted.