ba666 2.0 said:
I'm not forcing anybody for anything. It's people being accountable for their own actions, which is a lesson that even 5 year old children understand. If you choose to do something, you get whatever result comes from that. And you can't blame anybody except yourself if you are not happy with the results of your own actions because you are the one who did it.
Sex has a very high chance of creating a child. If you do this, you may end up having a child. If you do not want a child, you are not able to blame anybody except yourself because you made the choice to do an action which may create a child.
This is one example of why it is extremely important to never have sex with any low quality person and only choose a very high quality person. High quality physically, mentally, and in all other ways. Do not compromise and do not settle for anything lower. The physical health needs to be strong both so that the child does not have health problems, and also that the parent will be strong enough to take good care of the child. Because if a parent has any sicknesses or weaknesses, it is likely that the child will also have these. The parent also has to be strong mentally to be a good parent to be smart enough to know what to do, to know how to teach good lessons for the child, and also because the child will inherit the improved intelligence.
Even if there is no child, the idea of sex with a low quality person is absolutely disgusting. You are connecting together your souls and taking things from each other, and you are taking these problems into yourself. If it is a very sick, weak, or stupid person, you are taking sickness, weakness, and stupidity into yourself and damaging your body and soul. If the person is very low quality, this is like drinking sewage.
If you choose only a very high quality partner, this is also ensuring that you are choosing somebody who will be a very high quality parent. And you will never have any problem of this parent not being good enough in any way. It is also true that for a first child, almost nobody feels ready for this or thinks that they are ready. Everybody is nervous and worried, and might be afraid enough that they wish there was no child. But all of this fear goes away once the child is born, and this child becomes the most important thing in the world to the parents.