Taurus666 said:
Because, the moon sign was in Libra. Libra and Taurus is both ruled by Venus. Doing such working will naturally evoke the energy of Venus. If you feel using the energy of Venus is the best for you, then you do just that. I used the moon mainly to have an energy establishment to work upon i.e a waxing moon with a complementary sign to attract and bind, and this is basic magick going all the way back to the ancient times. Starting a working upon a waxing moon is for growth, starting things, gain something. Starting a working during a waning moon is mainly for banishing, removing things (such as hang-ups/obstacles) healing (removing negative energy).
You seem already to know what you should be doing, so there is no use for you to brainstorm this. Yes, as described in JoS, you visualize the person you desire engulfed in white-gold light while you state the affirmations in the moment of climax as you can read here:
http://www.angelfire.com/empire/serpentis666/Love_Spell.html
Timing your magick with the moon just complements the energies so the energies manifests in a suitable manner and better for you. Sex Magick is very individual in power as this is your direct Vril/Chi/Bio-electricity/Witch Power. The amount you are able to direct determine your success. Your mind alone won't understand what to do with this energy, therefore, visualization and affirmations are crucial. You do the affirmation as you like, and feel is correct for you. The "in a positive and a happy way for
me" is just a guideline...your mind will understand that the energies should make you happy here, thus making the relationship good. You can add, "this relationship is filled with joy, happiness and mutual respect" or whatever that works best for you.
Also, read this:
http://www.angelfire.com/empire/serpentis666/Sex_Magick.html
Hope this helps and much luck to you!
Take care,
Dark Pagan 666.
HS/88!