Hi all and to those who answered,Thank you for clearing this up, but these are my daughter's kids, my grand children. It is my daughter, who is 26 and my son-in-law who is 27 who this stupid brat is manipulating. I am onto her shit, and she knows it. I have been far from friendly with her, but my daughter is the one who feels sorry for her and feels this kid is no problem because she hasn't seen anything amiss in the actions of this parasitical freeloading brat. Since I cannot actually forbid her from coming around, both my husband and I expressed concern about her and both seemed to think she was okay. They think the problem is me, that I only dislike her because she is a "church girl" which is only partly true. It's the insidious way she got into my grand daughter's life and into ours. She came around one time and she and my grand daughter manipulate my daughter to allow her to stay day and night for days at a time. When she is here the negativity she provokes is evident. All my daughter sees is this sweet little girl and the great influence she has on her kids, yet overlooks the fact when she is around the arguments and kids temper tantrums increase, mainly because both the brat and my granddaughter are manipulating her. This girl hangs around almost 24/7 and goes everywhere with us. This is because my daughter believes she is a nice girl. The brat knows I don't like her, my grandkids know I don't like her. I am the one who receives the nasty glares and now my grandkids totallly ignore me and my husband because we are the ones who bitched about this kid hanging around and following us everywhere like a parasite. Needless to say we are the "bad" ones here. I hope this clears up this message. Sometimes my brain works quicker than my brain and I don't write as clearly as I like. I know this is a spirtual problem, as well as the workings of a highly manipulative nine and eleven year old baptist brat but seriously! When the parents are too worried about being mean to a brat who is only manipulating them and she is working her crap on my highly impressionable nine and six year old grand daughters whose personalities are changing daily because she is around all the time then it becomes my problem. My daughter, I love her, but she has a people pleasing mentality and is more worried about hurting the brat's feelings than what is happening under her nose. This is why I turned to you guys because I am not the parent here, I am the grandparent and cannot lay down the law so to speak over friendships. Thanks again...
On Sunday, August 10, 2014 8:20 PM, "no.state@... [JoyofSatan666]" <
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Tell her to leave and not come back. And, when someone asks why you told her to leave, tell them you don't like or trust her.
If anyone questions you further, simply explain to them it's your natural protective instincts.
I had a little jackass tying to hang out with my oldest daughter in the first grade. He was a malicious shit.
So, one day, when I went to pick her up, I saw him hassling her again. I told him, "Stay away from her. I know you'll either get her hurt or get her in trouble and If you don't I'm taking it up with your parents. Stay away." And then I walked away with her. I truly enjoyed the scowl on his nasty little face.
She later told me of some of the things he was saying and trying. I was right. He was terrorizing her.
This was even way before I came to Father Satan.