Some genuine advice with this is to target artists who are in cooperation or connection with this artist. By entering their socials spaces, with respect and actual genuine things. Some people are unreachable. You might be able to then have access to them, etc. Understand the human aspect of these things and also, very importantly, he doesn't give a single shit about any of individual lives anyone can have. Second very important aspect is that the work of the artist will always outperform the artist himself. So a separation of the work and the artist must be done.
Be careful idolizing effeminated pawns in this world. There are some lines in this world that blend in certain things, one needs to be aware. Artistical creation is the most potent form of brainwashing, for better or for worse, aware or unaware, accepting of it or not.
The correct advice is for you to focus on important things, yet maturing is due to its own natural time, regardless of any exposition to you.