Fanboy said:
She wants the element of air. I explained myself like 3 times. And paraphrased Maxine for you
Dissociated does not mean estranged like holy cow check a dictionary. You give me 3 messages of nothing, but can't give any good advice to the OP.
Done arguing.
You think someone disagreeing with you with absolutely no sign of aggression is an argument?
Then it took only two words to you for you to act out like this.
You gave a bad explanation that had to be pointed by someone else but still want to say, "And paraphrased Maxine for you". :?:
Maybe you should refrain from giving certain advice that has to do with acting like a mentally stable human. From an objective point of view and seeing your replies on this thread it's looking obvious that you lack social skills and are one of the many people who try to make excuses or try to justify their lack in this field.
Lastly, from false perception I came at you aggressive so you telling me whether I give good or bad advice is your own opinion and said opinion is irrelevant to anyone here. Only reply you're getting for that comment.
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But I do thank you since I have chance to explain myself better now that I have you as an example,
People who are like this go and say things like, "I'm introverted" when they're not really an introvert and are just awkward because they were shut in and sheltered growing up and didn't interact with kids their age which is the parents fault here. This is the general case for people who want to make *excuses* as to why they can't have a normal conversation with someone instead of searching for the root cause. I went thru something similar but I snuck out a lot or lied to stayed outside longer (and get my beatings later :lol: ) but I digress.
The problem gets worse when they're adults and don't address this issue and pretend like it doesn't exist but it shows when talking to a random person irl.
I understand where you're coming from since I used to get anxious when someone disagreed with me on the internet but like I said you grow out of it.
You replied to me in the context I wrote in as well so to me it's obvious you're just throwing out words without knowing the meaning of it. Perhaps even looked up the word before replying to me. If you actually did a little more digging you would know it's synonymous to disconnecting and I was only pointing out this has become unbalanced for some.
Even if it wasn't your intent, your bad reply to the OP made it look this way. Especially with that comment that it's a "super power". You're saying these things in a place where people want to desperately and understandably escape today's ugly reality and it's fine to disconnect but
in a healthy and balanced manner. That's the point of this and all one had to do was use a tiny fraction of critical thinking but how is that possible when people rather react? Beats me *shrugs*
I didn't mean to single you out btw since you're not the only one like this.
Anyways, I hope you do relax and do some void before your next reply instead of acting out in this way. For your own sake since optics are important and I'm not the only one reading your replies.
Don't take my constructive criticism towards you as aggression btw because it's not.
Cheers.