How to be more Social, Outgoing, Confident etc

[NoCreativeNameHereV2]

Hello,
As the topic implies what can I do to improve upon these aspects so I am more social (start and keep conversations going) more outgoing and more confident in how I am around everyone especially my partner and to be out and about more with the exception of work?

HAIL SATAN!

 

[Blitzkreig [JG]]

Hello,
As the topic implies what can I do to improve upon these aspects so I am more social (start and keep conversations going) more outgoing and more confident in how I am around everyone especially my partner and to be out and about more with the exception of work?

HAIL SATAN!

If you want to be outgoing and more competent in speech, then it sounds like Sowilo + Ansuz would be a simple answer to this, or Mercury and Solar energies. These pertain most to the what you have written here.

Look at your chart to see how other energies come in play, too. Your 7th and 11th houses, and their rulers, are relevant here, as would the 5th house be. Mars impacts bravery, but is less friendly. Venus is civil, pleasurable and helps with manners. Both Venus and Mars impact aspects of your sexuality and therefore your natural charm, which plays a role in the success of social interactions.

 

[Gearshift]

" post_id=451313 time=1687904609 user_id=21286]Sowilo + Ansuz

I too have had such social issues since ever maybe not the first few years of my life but over time it compounded. Albeit my issues are more of a bigger problem.

I believe it was Wayman Stewart's astro site before he closed it down. One aspect he put is one of my biggest issues is I have so much data in my head that the bottleneck going from my brain to my mouth is too much. I sometimes wonder what would it be like to have psychic communication considering I spend a considerable amount of time talking to myself in my head.

Since it's been mentioned by you several times to keep it simple. In fact even your newbie posts on runic protection keep it simple, do it, because runic protection should be kept up but keep it simple.

Can I do 16 Ansuz/16 Sowilo and keep it low. I know Lydia a long while back was like even minimal works it IS a power number. Even if Maxine in one mini-sermon on Runes was like when you reach about 23 vibrations past this the power builds up more so.

16 A/S Affirm: = I'm more social, outgoing, and confident permanently

Do I need to include a positive clause in this case? Above: [in a fully positive, healthy, beneficial, and best way for me].

BTW can this be helpful in debates. One of my issues is I require a computer to debate. I try and remember things like a computer only for it to get lost in translation. Newsflash Humans aren't computers nor posses computer memory, I know we can study it and do things like Memory Palace by Dr. Anthony Medvier or develop photographic memory. But lets be real here and state non of that is ever going to happen with me.

 

[ScienceSerpent]

" post_id=451313 time=1687904609 user_id=21286]Sowilo + Ansuz

Do I need to include a positive clause in this case? Above: [in a fully positive, healthy, beneficial, and best way for me].

I would. Actually, I do this with all affirmations. Otherwise, there could be some negative consequences manifest, like being too social and undiscerning with the wrong people etc.

 

[muriceias]

If you are concernede on "how to be" I recommendon focusing on meditations

 

[muriceias]

Sorry , I accidentaly hit subbmit on my previous reply.

If you are concerned with "how to be" I recommend focusing on meditations and also living your life the best you can. This with time will naturally bring you self knowledge and you will know "how to be".

 

[NoCreativeNameHereV2]

" post_id=451313 time=1687904609 user_id=21286]

Hello,
As the topic implies what can I do to improve upon these aspects so I am more social (start and keep conversations going) more outgoing and more confident in how I am around everyone especially my partner and to be out and about more with the exception of work?

HAIL SATAN!

If you want to be outgoing and more competent in speech, then it sounds like Sowilo + Ansuz would be a simple answer to this, or Mercury and Solar energies. These pertain most to the what you have written here.

Look at your chart to see how other energies come in play, too. Your 7th and 11th houses, and their rulers, are relevant here, as would the 5th house be. Mars impacts bravery, but is less friendly. Venus is civil, pleasurable and helps with manners. Both Venus and Mars impact aspects of your sexuality and therefore your natural charm, which plays a role in the success of social interactions.

Thank you for your response, a working using Sowilo + Ansuz 40 times on an optimal date would be suffice?
I'm unsure of a suitable affirmation to use it for it but I'm assuming a broad affirmation would work like
"in a safe and positive way I am now more social, confident and outgoing in the best way for me now and forever"
Let me know what you think of this and how I could improve it.

HAIL SATAN!

 

[Blitzkreig [JG]]

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If I had to be critical, this affirmation seems more solar focused and less Mercury focused.
You could say: "My communications and confidence have been permanently improved, in the best way for my social life and myself."

If I was doing this working with this affirmation, I would visualize the energy as a mix of light blue and white gold positively transforming your soul's social components (which could be seen as a layer of the soul), leaving behind golden "structures". Those "structures" radiant a bright light, indicating a new positive aspect of the soul, with the glow itself being the positive which you now derive from it.

Maybe the above is overly complicated, but that was just my opinion. The important point is that your social life has now been upgraded with 1) better communications (mercury) 2) increased confidence (solar).

Just so you are aware, the solar energy's confidence comes from a projection of value from the self. It is joyful, happy, glowing, and proud. Loves to laugh and show itself. It would not hold back a joke or funny performance, and this is further enhanced by the witty air energy, which understands how to make jokes, speak fluently, be dynamic, curious, and interesting, plus able to connect with others.

 

[Blitzkreig [JG]]

" post_id=451313 time=1687904609 user_id=21286]Sowilo + Ansuz

I too have had such social issues since ever maybe not the first few years of my life but over time it compounded. Albeit my issues are more of a bigger problem.

I believe it was Wayman Stewart's astro site before he closed it down. One aspect he put is one of my biggest issues is I have so much data in my head that the bottleneck going from my brain to my mouth is too much. I sometimes wonder what would it be like to have psychic communication considering I spend a considerable amount of time talking to myself in my head.

Since it's been mentioned by you several times to keep it simple. In fact even your newbie posts on runic protection keep it simple, do it, because runic protection should be kept up but keep it simple.

Can I do 16 Ansuz/16 Sowilo and keep it low. I know Lydia a long while back was like even minimal works it IS a power number. Even if Maxine in one mini-sermon on Runes was like when you reach about 23 vibrations past this the power builds up more so.

16 A/S Affirm: = I'm more social, outgoing, and confident permanently

Do I need to include a positive clause in this case? Above: [in a fully positive, healthy, beneficial, and best way for me].

BTW can this be helpful in debates. One of my issues is I require a computer to debate. I try and remember things like a computer only for it to get lost in translation. Newsflash Humans aren't computers nor posses computer memory, I know we can study it and do things like Memory Palace by Dr. Anthony Medvier or develop photographic memory. But lets be real here and state non of that is ever going to happen with me.

Positive clauses should always be included.

The power of the runes, if using low reps, comes from your focus on their generation, plus your soul's ability to do so. I would not aim for numbers which are too low because you don't want to lose confidence in the working, but don't go too high either.

As for debates, this is more ruled by Mars, which directs the Mercurial aspect of the soul to create logical assaults. Debates also test the actual air component of your Mercury, which not everyone has. Yes, the above runes could help, although perhaps debates would be better suited by Thurisaz instead.

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If you want to start a working, I would highly suggest using Nauthiz and Uruz starting today (Capricorn esbat), used to improve your discipline and endurance with spiritual work. This will make it less boring for you to do, both in the moment, but also consistently.

I say this because this would serve as the basis for you to solve other problems in your life.

Also remember that any digital exposure will alter your brain's arousal and make you more bored by less stimulating activities, such as meditation. I say this because I remember you talking about playing video games for a long time at one point, which no doubt fried the neurons for a short period, causing everything else to seem boring.

Digital entertainment can be consumed, but we have to recognize the negative influence it has, which occurs immediately and becomes more pronounced as more is consumed. Therefore, we should purposely limit this, especially when our other important tasks feel boring in comparison.

 

[NoCreativeNameHereV2]

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Thank you so much for a better affirmation and a guide for visualization while what you describe as a way you would visualize the working and energies manifest as overcomplicating for me. It is something I would consider trying I'm just unsure of a suitable date for it, only dates I would be aware of is the 3rd of July which is ESBAT or any dates that have the moon phasing signs such as Gemini or Capricorn. Unsure about Gemini since it's a neutral and workings begun in that sign don't tend to last. But those 2 signs are ones that I believe improve upon social skills and perhaps confidence to a degree.

Yes, what you describe in your last paragraph is exactly what I want throughout all of this, especially with my partner so we can connect even more and keep conversations going.

HAIL SATAN!

 

[Pyralis]

From personal experience, invoking the fire element can also have an extremely positive effect in this regard. Keep in mind, though, that this is a somewhat advanced technique, and there is potential for things to go very wrong if you don't do exactly what it says to:

https://joyofsatan.org/www.angelfire.com/empire/serpentis666/Invoking_Fire.html

Best of luck.