Missrainbow1 said:
Hi everyone
Today I accidently saw a post about men's suicide rates and its terrible and high and is just getting worse.I got worried and I have no experience with this so I would like to know how we should help people when they are having suicidal thoughts?I have even seen people who feel that way in Forums.If anyone has experience or any Idea about this please share it
It's an alchemical process involving the transmutation of repressed emotions.
Men are taught to bottle and repress their suffering and this has to be unlearned.
Underneath the sea of sadness and pain is a burning inferno of RAGE.
That anger and rage is the invaluable resource that will liberate or destroy.
Men are told that it's wrong to be angry, to have hatred... when nothing could be further from the truth.
So attached to the anger is shame and so shame also must be addressed.
The two primary emotions underlying the decision to suicide seem to be a deep sense of shame and burning rage.
If channeled in a healthy way, the anger is meant to drive one towards positive actions that resolve the cause point of the pain.
Anger shows us what is wrong, what needs to be addressed. It gives us energy to resolve a serious problem. If it is not allowed to solve the problem, the anger builds get's buried, stagnates and can become like a bomb one carries around.
It also takes a lot of energy to constantly keep this shame and anger down, so depression is a common result.
This can be frightening for those allowing themselves to be angry for the first time.
But it needs a release valve. Screaming in the woods while breaking branches, invoking the name of Kali is a good start in my opinion. The energy has to go somewhere so better to go into some dead branches than taking one's own life.
Suicide is a misplaced attempt at releasing the unbearable rage. It's a misdirection of primal energy.
There are various visualizations and meditations that can help facilitate this and if there is demand or request I will provide instructions.
The reason people suicide is they feel hopeless in finding any other resolution to their situation.
Through alchemy and assistance of our Gods, we can resolve these issues in a way that makes us better, stronger people in the end. There is no quick fix to this and we must be patient with ourselves as this is a healing process. That being said, one would be surprised at how quickly we can make progress once we decide to face the problems head on and decide with absolute resolve that we will transmute them.
This of how the antidote of the serpent's poison is contained within the venom itself. Hidden inside the poison is the antidote. This must be applied to the problems that lead people to consider suicide.
Also, beneath the impulse to self-destruct is the desire to be alchemically reborn and transformed. The desire needs a positive expression, as taking one's life is a negative expression of this. Therefore, it is advisable to work with deities whose auspices fall in these categories. I recommend Kali or underworld deity such as Erishkergal, Pluto, Hella, etc. to assist the person in navigating through the difficulties.
Kali Mantra: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xG-gtd42Jw4
Sat Nam