HermesTrismegistos said:
I noticed that my family member's Saturn is conjunct with my ruler; they are one degree apart. And also my ruler is conjoined with my Jupiter and is two degrees away from his Saturn. How would you act in my place?
Also, I wanted to ask about a synastry with another person. The most important synastry with my chart is her Mars in close opposition (0.50 degrees apart) with my Venus. In Azazel astrology it says that Venus/Mars synastry is good for sex, does this apply equally to opposition?
I have two family members whose Saturn is either close to conjunction with my ruler or aspecting it otherwise. One I grew up with serious animosity towards, and another aspect of this showed up in my chart specifically. At this point in my life, I am going through transits that indicate this is being transformed for the better, and this transit has been taking place for some time now and manifesting. If family members have their Saturn aspecting someone's ruler in their family or vice versa it can take sibling rivalry to the extreme or clashing between parent and child or even estrangement especially if pluto is involved. In worst-case scenarios, physical and emotional abuse can be present.
Depending on other parts of the synastry, this can either be offset or completely crowded out...there might be transits that happen later in life that mend this partially or completely depending on the past and other factors. There is no one simple answer that fits all. If you are at a point in your life where you feel family members are toxic to you and communication is not solving the problem taking distance for the time being if possible is a possible solution.