well let me start from the beginning I will try to be as honest as possible.
As a kid I have always been bullied (I think this happend because i have always stuttert, I dont stutter as much as I did back then but I still stutter sometimes.), Because I have always been bullied I was always on my own and I tried to block myself off to the real world. The bulling was not only verbaly but also physicly, I always wanted to good and well nothing good came to me but well that is something from the past, It doesnt affect me really when I think back.
As a kid I had a headache regulary this was when I was about 4 years old, because of the headaches I blocked out my own taugths and combined with the bullying that made me block myself of from my feelings I became really insecure and quiet. I never talked, I never taugth about anything, I never felt anything, I did put myself on the side line and just did what others wanted from me.
when I was 16 I started to work as a apprentice line machaninc.... after 2 years I started talking more but I stil put myself on the second place. My coleagues walked over me and because I couldnt say no to anything I did everything they asked me to do, in the end I was the one working while my coleagues didnt do anything. I couldnt feel my feelings so I just went with it, after a while I started to get agitated and had the feeling I couldnt handle anything anymore. This was the when I got a burnout thats about 2 years ago now.
After I stopped working for a while (about a week) I got a lot of trouble with my employer, Im not going into specifics about this cuz it will take a while and it doesnt really matter what exactly happend. I still work for them because they have to pay me till I am sick for 2 years after wards they can fire me so I have no finacial problems right now. But because of everything that happend between me and my employer I got mentaly stronger because I had to fight back.... again not going into specifics.
And then we arive at the present, I am not the shy boy anymore that puts himself on the second place, If there is something on my mind I say so, if i dont want to do a specific thing i wont..........But everything that happend as a kid shaped me, thats not somehting i can easely redo with some meditations. Suppresing my emotions made me numb, I am slowly understanding and feeling my emotions sometimes they are almost out of control but I dont think thats nacesarely a bad thing. with the meditations I am learing how to use and control my taugths and thats going alrigth.
I have some spyciatric help that took over a year to get -_- but that doesnt really help me at all, I got some medicine's to help me control my emotions and whever else its good for, I used these meds for 2 months and well I really hate meds but I tried to use em and i noticed that those meds just suppress my emotions while I need to understand my emotions and learn how to get in harmony with them. So i quit with the meds that is around the same time I started with satanism. a week and a half after i started satanism i started experiencing dizzyness and that came random troughout the day for about a week if not longer.
Apart from the negative things I have experienced some possitive things as well since i started meditating like, concentration, better understanding of my feelings...well cant really say its better but they are more active right now, i feel more rested and so on, And one big thing is well for years I couldnt enjoy anything sexualy (I dont mean intercourse but doing it myself) it took freaking hours and i didnt feel anything. A week after the dedication I had a certain dream and after wards no problems anymore.
I wanted to say more but I forgot about it but this is plenty of information i think.Thank you for your time and intrests
And sorry for the engrish im not a native english speaker.
Op woensdag 31 januari 15:01 2018 schreef "taolvanswd@... [SSHealth]" <
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What did you do prior to your burnout?
How do you feel towards yourself losing your emotions? (you dont have to answer that here)
I think you forced yourself away from something or people kept stepping over your boundaries, causing this problem.
You seem to think of yourself as a machine, but by reading all that you have on the JoS website you must have seen that you are not.
You are not a slave. You are not a servant to do someones bidding with low pay.
You are an individual that is not to be discredited, nor to be put down and taken for granted.
Even if you are sweet and willing to do everything, you must do it on your terms.
And this problem can go much further back than the last 2 years. Maybe you'll have to look as far back as your childhood.
Maybe this makes no sense to you and you may find me rude in saying this, but I have no intention of hurting you.