When I was young and stupid I was dating someone who was in constant contact with their ex and all the signs pointed out that they will either cheat on me or leave me for said ex. I confronted that ex and told them that if they want my partner back to make it clear (and I would break up with them bc I wasn't extremely invested), otherwise to go no contact and leave us alone. The ex responded in a very rude way, mocked me and they said ''I don't owe you anything''. I ended up breaking up with my partner for that and some other reasons and they started dating the ex within a week. I was so angry that I wrote them a letter basically cursing them to be alone forever and sent it to them. I was not a SS back then (had left xtian BS though) but the curse worked. My former partner ended up dumping the ex in a few weeks for someone else, a random person they met at a park. It has been 9 years since that retarded story took place and I check their instagram once a month and they are always single and whining about it and how they want to get married but nobody wants them....
Thanks to the information here in JoS, I have now learned that the punishment should fit the crime, and my curse was definitely over the top, just because they stole some trash from me they don't deserve to die alone. What are the consequences spiritually if someone curses excessively? Can I reverse it? I haven't forgiven them because they never apologized, but I have reached a state of indifference, I want to advanse spiritually and if the curse burdens me in any way, I would much rather help them find someone to get married.
What should I do?
Thanks to the information here in JoS, I have now learned that the punishment should fit the crime, and my curse was definitely over the top, just because they stole some trash from me they don't deserve to die alone. What are the consequences spiritually if someone curses excessively? Can I reverse it? I haven't forgiven them because they never apologized, but I have reached a state of indifference, I want to advanse spiritually and if the curse burdens me in any way, I would much rather help them find someone to get married.
What should I do?