AlexElPM said:
I understand this, but at what degree this is true?
Does this mean that one cannot evolve and develop another personality? Take natal charts as an example. The natal chart changes through reincarnations due to the steps that one takes in each life
You can develop different personality traits but unless you are in complete unanimous control of your mind-body-soul by reaching an extremely high advancement level in Yoga ,I don't think you can fundamentally change who you are.
For example people who are highly emotional by nature (by astrology) is not going to be be able to become players with women ,because he's going to be extremely attached to a person.
A man who is going to appeal to a vast majority of women and thus have options with vast majority of women who have high extroverion, low neuroticism ,low conscientious, High in the Ego ,Cunning, Ruthlessness factors. He gives more importance to the physical attributes rather than emotions etc. He gives more importance to results rather than reveling in the feeling of connecting with another person.
You need a certain callous ruthlessness to become a player just as you would need to become a Commander or a General or a CEO. Some people just do not have the capacity to become like that.
Some people since they are extremely emotional will become attached to their partner and can't even fathom cheating on them. While the player is cheating on all of the women he's dating while the women feel special.
Not to say one kind of person is better or worse than the other. Both have different attributes.
And there are different people who gravitate towards different people. Some men might want a woman who is making money and contributing to the relationship 50 - 50 while others might want to be in control and make majority of the money.
We are all different and lying to ourselves and others just creates unnecessary problems.
We can learn about ourselves from astrology and personality tests.
It also depends on your goals. Personally I'm currently completely invested in preparing financially for the future ,so I don't even talk to women other than my gf. However when I'm done I'm going to introduce the idea of polygyny to my girlfriend and I'm going to have atleast two wives (not legally Ofcourse because I'm never going to get married legally. ) and I also want to have atleast 5 children or more.
The thing about being an SS is that you have free reign to follow your own nature and no one can stop you or force you to follow societies dictates.