Porn is lonely and shit, and a lot of it is degrading, immoral, illegal, disgusting, interracial... A drama on at the moment is Adolescence about a lad who murdered a lass due to online misogyny (I haven't seen it; I just heard bits about it). A lot of porn is misogynistic, and is portrayed about power and control instead of consent and love. Porn influences people into what they see in it, which is not the same as actual sexual intercourse, and it is acting, not real; and if it keeps going it teaches the addict the things which are in the porn that isn't proper. While watching porn, one is not engaging in actual, Natural interaction with a fellow. It's about as real as following a celebrity who doesn't know you exist and doesn't give a shit about you, and with repeated use of porn it gets to be "needing" more and more, instead of one being satisfied - like drugs and any addiction - leading to worse and worse things. If one can find some actually-decent porn, then that's not as bad, but it is still lonely and shit - and the "death grip" is... well... potentially deadly, so to speak. It can also contribute further towards being an incel.
As for prostitution/brothels - that's fine if they are clean and reputable. Not a street druggie who is full of shit that you don't want/need. A trustworthy escort, from a decent, reputable service would be better. Prostitution is not that great at the moment; with sexual interaction with another person, each participants' Souls mix and interact, with the exchange of Energies - including all others they have slept with. In proper society, the escort (who I would call an Escort with a capital E, rather than merely a sex worker; like "god" for christianity v our Gods and Goddesses who actually do exist in real-life) would clean himself/herself of Energies, as well as bathing/showering properly, etc., as necessary; in today's protitution/brothel usage, the Spiritual cleaning doesn't happen and at least with street druggies they care about the drugs and not about keeping themselves clean, including being riddled with STIs.
Not to mention the Emotional, Mental and Psychological attachments that happen with repeated visting and usage of sex workers and also with porn usage, and perhaps losing money/items by the dirty/disreputable ones stealing off you, and them trying to hound you and take advantage of you - and with you funding them killing themselves with drugs... You don't want Karma because of that, including from what I saw recently, that perhaps a dozen people, from cocaine-producing countries, all along the route to here in Europe, all get murdered because they can't or refuse to participate in it, just so that druggies here in Europe can get a fix killing themselves and a user/punter/client can get his rocks off...
). I’m genuinely confused. Why is it that porn is often criticised as harmful or degrading, but sex work (like brothels) is defended and supported.
