Becoming a mature individual

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How to be a mature individual What are the distinctive characteristics of mature people? There is a point that I don't understand, don't you think it is very important to be a good person?

 

[Draconi666]

Mature people focuses on what is needed, and not on a nonesence which brings nowhere.

What is needed on a mature perspective is what is most right for a certain situation.

I think this comes with time, experience, striving for bettering ourselves, persistence, education, discipline, learning in application of knowledge, above all learning, learning and learning.

Maturity also comes completely naturally by doing all the above and more and it can’t be reached faster.

It is something like when you experience life more, and start too see more straight what is all about.

 

[Draconi666]

Mature people focuses on what is needed, and not on a nonesence which brings nowhere.

What is needed on a mature perspective is what is most right for a certain situation.

I think this comes with time, experience, striving for bettering ourselves, persistence, education, discipline, learning in application of knowledge, above all learning, learning and learning.

Maturity also comes completely naturally by doing all the above and more and it can’t be reached faster.

It is something like when you experience life more, and start to see more straight what is all about.

Characteristics of mature people, if one is not mature may look not understandable and not reachable for one, and it may look like mystical thing, as people who behave in mature way, they have a look of successful man in conjunction with skilful living.

That successful and mystical, mature man outlook depends on one’s planets of course and how one applies truth in life, how one manages everything and how much experience and skills have developed.

Above all I think awareness is what makes one mature mostly, because if one is closer to reality, they are mature more naturally.

All values and actions of life finds better place in mature man’s life, because of empathy to others which is used in more proper way,

And because of gained experience, awarenes and life, all other aspects are aimed into places where it is truly belongs, when actions finds their place where they are needed,

In short one has to find highest purpose, and go there with complete their being because they starts to understand nothing can be more important than highest purpose for human being,

So everything one has in themselves starts to be aimed at that purpose, and maturity comes with this, as I said above, one straightens their being and intentions better, better they are mature.
-Draconi666

 

[Ælberiigor]

How to be a mature individual What are the distinctive characteristics of mature people?

To be mature is to be responsible, not childish or capricious, not egocentric, autonomous, don't let others influence himself, self knowledge, to know its limits, try to understand others, avoid to be out of context to impose his point of view...
It's to be wise.

There is a point that I don't understand, don't you think it is very important to be a good person?

To be "good" require an effort, you must continuously correct your point of view, be comprehensive, be able to restrain your instincts...
To be "bad" require nothing and lead to lie, hypocrite, steal, abuse, sacrifice others for egoistic needs... you become a vampire, a jew.

Good and bad are subjective concepts and depend of your company.
Instead of "good" VS "bad", think noble VS coarse/vulgar...

People with a low level mindset are left out by interesting and intelligent people and only scum accept them.

In a video about the personal development, a guy said :
Good habits are hard to form but easy to live by.
Bad habits are easy to form but hard to live by.