hailourtruegod1
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So I recently started talking to one of my exes again. We went out like about 8 years ago. I am her first kiss too. I broke up with her after like 3 months. Honestly I don't have a legit reason why. Perhaps I was just a little dumb,boy back then. She is literally one if not the only girl I u dated that never have,me reason to be upset with her. I remember we would talk for hours on the phone n we wouldn't even have those long pauses of silence.let me skip to now so I won't make this too long.
We started talking again about a month and a half ago. And we did we really kick it off. We reminisced a ever about us and everyday we have talked on the phone just like we did back then. Hours on the phone n none of those awkward pauses of silence. And talking to get again made me realized how much I liked this girl. Btw she lives in Illinois where liver swell but I moved to Florida like two months for a job.
The more I talk to her the more I seem to like her. And she has admitted to like me alot to. I even told her we should get give it another shot when I go over there again. She told me she would really like too. The only problem is she has gone thru some really bad break UPS and told.me that for the past year she has been enjoying being single. She hasn't even thought about being a relationship until until recently. She says she like everything I have been telling her and would like too see where we go if we hook up again. I've written poems about her n said them to her. I even asked her out over a poem but I told her she didn't have to answer me anytime soon cuz one we are far away at the time and two I know she's going thru some things that she needs to figure. I said answer when ur ready. And for 2 -3 weeks we started calling each other babe and pretty much just talking alot and like are bf n gf. But recently she is acting strange. She used to speak to me with compassion n all sweet but for these past several days she stopped that. She doesn't even call me or text me like she used to. I also been kinda stressed cuz of work n recently we got into two small arguments but we came to the conclusion they were both misunderstandings.
I understand what she's going thru but she doesn't even want to talk to about when I ask her what's wrong. It kinda starting to make me feel like I did something wrong but I know I haven't. I'm trying my best to just let it go n give her space which I have been doing but she keeps coming up in my mind and idk I do really like her. We really are very compatible that it kinda surprised me. I told her I never met a girl like her before. One that I get along with so much and that we have so much in common. She even said that we really are very compatible. Oh she read me a sweet little poem she wrote for me.
I'm confused brothers and sisters. Can someone please give me advice as in what I should do? I have never asked helped for this kind of thing and it took me alot of courage to write all this. I usually try to figure things by myself but idk I feel like I could use some help from my new family since I do enjoy taking into consideration what u guys write here. And alot of what u guys have written has helped me.
PS sorry if this is really long.
We started talking again about a month and a half ago. And we did we really kick it off. We reminisced a ever about us and everyday we have talked on the phone just like we did back then. Hours on the phone n none of those awkward pauses of silence. And talking to get again made me realized how much I liked this girl. Btw she lives in Illinois where liver swell but I moved to Florida like two months for a job.
The more I talk to her the more I seem to like her. And she has admitted to like me alot to. I even told her we should get give it another shot when I go over there again. She told me she would really like too. The only problem is she has gone thru some really bad break UPS and told.me that for the past year she has been enjoying being single. She hasn't even thought about being a relationship until until recently. She says she like everything I have been telling her and would like too see where we go if we hook up again. I've written poems about her n said them to her. I even asked her out over a poem but I told her she didn't have to answer me anytime soon cuz one we are far away at the time and two I know she's going thru some things that she needs to figure. I said answer when ur ready. And for 2 -3 weeks we started calling each other babe and pretty much just talking alot and like are bf n gf. But recently she is acting strange. She used to speak to me with compassion n all sweet but for these past several days she stopped that. She doesn't even call me or text me like she used to. I also been kinda stressed cuz of work n recently we got into two small arguments but we came to the conclusion they were both misunderstandings.
I understand what she's going thru but she doesn't even want to talk to about when I ask her what's wrong. It kinda starting to make me feel like I did something wrong but I know I haven't. I'm trying my best to just let it go n give her space which I have been doing but she keeps coming up in my mind and idk I do really like her. We really are very compatible that it kinda surprised me. I told her I never met a girl like her before. One that I get along with so much and that we have so much in common. She even said that we really are very compatible. Oh she read me a sweet little poem she wrote for me.
I'm confused brothers and sisters. Can someone please give me advice as in what I should do? I have never asked helped for this kind of thing and it took me alot of courage to write all this. I usually try to figure things by myself but idk I feel like I could use some help from my new family since I do enjoy taking into consideration what u guys write here. And alot of what u guys have written has helped me.
PS sorry if this is really long.