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Hello there , I got a question regarding about this girl, so long story short I approached her back in october , we talked a bit and that but then her friends kept telling me that she doesn t like me even though whenever I asked her about this subject she just kept avoiding it, everytime we see each other we keep making eye contact and smiling at each other, we stopped talking around end of october but since then we keep looking at each other , smiling etc but we are not talking even though whenever I wanna approach her and talk she s talking with me she doesn t mind. Although sometimes the thoughtforms are too strong about her and whenever I have this the next day we meet at school we either meeting everywhere or just keep doing eye contact. Any ideas ?
Thank you.
 
If she's smiling back when you guys make eye contact and doesn't show any signs of wanting to step away from you when you approach her to talk, than she's probably into you.

At the very least as a friend. You both are also in each other's subconscious and that's why you both seem to see each other everywhere. Just continue to talk to her and if her friends keep telling you she doesn't like you, then you have to determine if you like this girl as a friend or as something more.

Because if you want something more, at some point you're going to flirt with her and you're going to have to read her response and go from there.
 
Sungio13 said:
If she's smiling back when you guys make eye contact and doesn't show any signs of wanting to step away from you when you approach her to talk, than she's probably into you.

At the very least as a friend. You both are also in each other's subconscious and that's why you both seem to see each other everywhere. Just continue to talk to her and if her friends keep telling you she doesn't like you, then you have to determine if you like this girl as a friend or as something more.

Because if you want something more, at some point you're going to flirt with her and you're going to have to read her response and go from there.

I see , thank you for this man. Though but the thoughtforms can be vice versa for each other I guess since this is ongoing since october.
 
codeine1337 said:
Sungio13 said:
If she's smiling back when you guys make eye contact and doesn't show any signs of wanting to step away from you when you approach her to talk, than she's probably into you.

At the very least as a friend. You both are also in each other's subconscious and that's why you both seem to see each other everywhere. Just continue to talk to her and if her friends keep telling you she doesn't like you, then you have to determine if you like this girl as a friend or as something more.

Because if you want something more, at some point you're going to flirt with her and you're going to have to read her response and go from there.

I see , thank you for this man. Though but the thoughtforms can be vice versa for each other I guess since this is ongoing since october.

You're welcome and yes, it's mostly likely the case.
 
Sungio13 said:
codeine1337 said:
Sungio13 said:
If she's smiling back when you guys make eye contact and doesn't show any signs of wanting to step away from you when you approach her to talk, than she's probably into you.

At the very least as a friend. You both are also in each other's subconscious and that's why you both seem to see each other everywhere. Just continue to talk to her and if her friends keep telling you she doesn't like you, then you have to determine if you like this girl as a friend or as something more.

Because if you want something more, at some point you're going to flirt with her and you're going to have to read her response and go from there.

I see , thank you for this man. Though but the thoughtforms can be vice versa for each other I guess since this is ongoing since october.

You're welcome and yes, it's mostly likely the case.

well today I kinda tried to approach her and she was not that into it, she was kinda trying to go further away from me
 
codeine1337 said:
Sungio13 said:
codeine1337 said:
I see , thank you for this man. Though but the thoughtforms can be vice versa for each other I guess since this is ongoing since october.

You're welcome and yes, it's mostly likely the case.

well today I kinda tried to approach her and she was not that into it, she was kinda trying to go further away from me

You can try one more time, and if it's not welcomed then that's it. Many times people aren't going to look into why they feel certain ways and that's fine. Maybe she liked you, maybe not anymore. As long as you're not being creepy about it, maybe you'll position yourself better in social circles she happens to be around. And from there, a natural friendship or relationship is more easily possible.

Wether it happens or not, don't be too stressed about it.
 
Many women are afraid of saying no or communicating directly because of the way some men handle rejection. It can result in harm either emotionally or physically, so for for risk management we just avoid it.
If you do end up asking her out, if you can help it, don't do it in a situation where she feels forced to give an answer or do anything. Buy her a coffee and write your number on it or something. Or invite her somewhere public.
 
Sungio13 said:
codeine1337 said:
Sungio13 said:
You're welcome and yes, it's mostly likely the case.

well today I kinda tried to approach her and she was not that into it, she was kinda trying to go further away from me

You can try one more time, and if it's not welcomed then that's it. Many times people aren't going to look into why they feel certain ways and that's fine. Maybe she liked you, maybe not anymore. As long as you're not being creepy about it, maybe you'll position yourself better in social circles she happens to be around. And from there, a natural friendship or relationship is more easily possible.

Wether it happens or not, don't be too stressed about it.

Today she was with her friends , we were keeping some distance between us and stuff , everytime we were looking at each other we were starting to smile. But yeah we went out and stuff 1 month ago , she has my number but I am blocked.
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

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