kingofrebel said:
I had a relationship 1.5 year . I found out that my girlfriend cheated on me a week ago with someone else. I don't know what to do, I want to give her an experience that will never forget. I know important things about her if i want i can destroy her life .But when I do I fear Satan will exclude me, after all, he encourages us to love and mercy, I am very indecisive and feeling so much bad
The situation is, what have you agreed together? Where has been your communication with her all this time? Why do you believe 1.5 years is actually that much of a time, especially if this time was not as much invested into knowing her and her you?
What were your agreements that have went both ways in this relationship, ie, did she give you clues or tell you she would be fucking around, or she just kept you in the darkness and blinded you with nonsense that you were the love of her life?
Is she worth believing or holding to, let alone forgiving, and worth the effort to do that? Did you care a lot, or not that much? Do you care about HER, or because YOU were cheated? Who did she cheat with, and under what circumstances? What does that say about her?
Generally, yes, punishments can happen over these things, especially where solid agreements have been made and one feels violated. In this case, when you examine it, are there any reasons, or it's just her doing nonsense and disrespect? You should first and foremost, stand your ground and organize yourself, as clearly you have been hurt by her actions.
Father Satan will not exclude over subjects that deal with interpersonal relationships between people who actually also have problems with their own partners etc. Satan is about Justice, not about "love", "hate" or "mercy" in that regard. He is merciful but sometimes Justice represented re-precautions for one's actions.
Generally, many people out there, have peanuts for brains, they cannot really be honest, and they can oftentimes be lost in their desires, not knowing what to do and what to pick. That is expected in life, especially in smaller people, or people of certain dispositions.
You could try confronting her if she has value, for which you will likely receive tears and not much wisdom at all. Then, she might fight to get you back if she cares. Then there might be a chance that she will try to repair this, but this will take a lot of effort from both ends, and likely this won't stick, but it all depends on what was going on between you two before this event happened.
Lastly, I have to further add, that oftentimes it's not "you" who did a mistake to "cause" this, but that people can do all sorts of things out of their own volition, and make stupid decisions, even if you were fine with them all along. That's because they have their own issues to sort out. Depending on the value of the human being and the relationship, one has to act accordingly.
Take steps back and try to see the whole picture, and then act. Do not act recklessly.
-High Priest Hooded Cobra 666
