Hello there Enki , good to see you. I get your point but I meant like they just broke up with their ex for example right a week before. I was usually using Gebo with Ansuz and 2 more but I kinda forgot what runes I was using I must write them down next time though I was doing x8 reps for runes and x5 for affirmation. If you got a better idea I'd gladly listen and appreciate, thank you bro!
You don't need to immediately jump into a relationship with a girl, you can just talk to them first for a while, maybe meet up a few times and see how things are. You cannot know much about a person just from knowing they just broke up.
These girls who just broke up, they are available again now and they are clearly wanting a boyfriend. Now, I would also be cautious, because someone who just went through a breakup is likely to not be the most stable person, maybe they are acting on emotion, they aren't serious and just want attention because they feel lonely, or whatever, but you can only find this out by giving something a little bit of time.
Another angle this can go is that the working specifically attracts these girls, exactly because they were in a shit relationship before and they break up, and now become available to you who can provide a much better relationship and be a much better partner.
Can you share what affirmation you are using? And do you have an idea of what you want from a relationship, or have an idea what these are about? Having a strong idea of what you want, will help you to fine tune your working and let the energy attract what you really desire. It is not just about the affirmation, but also the visualization or at least the aim in your desire.
If you don't have much experience with relationships before, then it isn't necessarily a problem to just go for it, even if it doesn't work out. You can have a good experience even with relationships that cannot last. Then later in life, you will know what to look for and gauge what will work and what will not, so that when you go to settle down, you will have less trouble finding a partner with whom you can create a lifelong bond.
I know a girl who had gone through over 40 relationships before her mid 20's, some lasting weeks, some lasting months, she broke up all the time because she got bored and didn't really love anyone. Then at age 30, she finally found someone to be with and settled down with them, got married and has been together for the long term, because she knew exactly what she liked and the person to love.
Instead of being alone, she always wanted to be with someone, but never knew who to be with, got bored and looked for different people. Some people need this kind of thing. It might not be the best, but it doesn't have to be something negative. Even being with a girl like this, is not necessarily a negative thing.
I would say, you should rather be more open to try and see if you like the girls who come your way and if they like you, get some experience with girls by talking with them and seeing what they want, so you become a better judge of character regarding finding a suitable girlfriend. Just be mindful not to get played around with by girls who just want to take advantage of you and leech of you before hopping to the next dude. You can't really know if they will be like this though just by knowing they broke up recently or not.
To avoid attracting any leeches who are a waste of time, you can perhaps adjust your affirmation. Also, Gebo works best when directing it towards a specific person, not so much as a general attraction working, which I personally feel is also not exactly ethical either. I think personally it is better to liberate your own self and build your aura to raise your attraction so you can more easily get a potential partner to desire you, and liberate your sexual power so you can strongly attract a good partner while sending away anything you don't want.
Though it has been a very long time since I did any love workings. I do know from experience that having a very strong sacral chakra and solar chakra will raise your appeal and charisma naturally, then having a stronger mind and stronger confidence, you can send your desire out and draw towards yourself a great woman when you want this, opportunities to be together with someone great can be received much more easily like that.