About Family

[Onbael_]

What is family? What is the meaning of having a brother and having parents?

How should I behave or how should I approach them?

I have a brother whose existence tells me nothing, sometimes or felt affection, many other times I hate him because he is useless.

With my mother I felt classic affection, but with time I had realized that that feeling did not correspond with her.

In my future they are not even there, which takes away from the meaning of the family, and I don't want to feel obligated to keep up with them just because they have blood in common.

I want to decide for myself what the destiny and my life is.

I feel that having lived multiple lives, this one is not really my mother, that is, the one who created me, and consequently this one is not my family.

 

[ΑΡΗΣ_666]

What is family? What is the meaning of having a brother and having parents?

How should I behave or how should I approach them?

I have a brother whose existence tells me nothing, sometimes or felt affection, many other times I hate him because he is useless.

With my mother I felt classic affection, but with time I had realized that that feeling did not correspond with her.

In my future they are not even there, which takes away from the meaning of the family, and I don't want to feel obligated to keep up with them just because they have blood in common.

I want to decide for myself what the destiny and my life is.

I feel that having lived multiple lives, this one is not really my mother, that is, the one who created me, and consequently this one is not my family.

Just become independent and go your own way, flap your wings and go.
You don't have to be attached to them 24/7, just keep a line of communication and do what you want to do in life.
It's not a coincidence you were born into this family, no reason to hate them. Families are not perfect anywhere.
Learn from it and do it better if you choose to make your own family.

 

[CrimsongRaexius666]

What is family? What is the meaning of having a brother and having parents?

How should I behave or how should I approach them?

I have a brother whose existence tells me nothing, sometimes or felt affection, many other times I hate him because he is useless.

With my mother I felt classic affection, but with time I had realized that that feeling did not correspond with her.

In my future they are not even there, which takes away from the meaning of the family, and I don't want to feel obligated to keep up with them just because they have blood in common.

I want to decide for myself what the destiny and my life is.

I feel that having lived multiple lives, this one is not really my mother, that is, the one who created me, and consequently this one is not my family.

A family means the Satanic union where two compatible souls become more than just "lovers". They become Satanic husband and wife, spiritually protecting each other and caring for their children.

Your brother isn't useless, it is just that due to astrological aspects he may have a more childish or goofy nature. It happens. Best would be if he would do an Earth element to impose a self discipline.

Even if you had some family conflicts, please remember that they are still the ones you can trust.

In my life at least, besides the SS family, outside the forums, family, especially the mother has been the best help to learn, to evolve and to stay away from toxic people that are encouraging all sorts of delusions, illegal stuff etc.

 

[BlackOnyx8 [JG]]

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Family is the most important aspect of life. It is the foundation of everything. Without your family, you wouldn't even exist. Take, at the very least this into consideration.

Please never say these words to your family, especially not to your mother, and take steps to heal from these feelings.

Understand that it is not their fault that they do not have the same level of understanding as you do, and they may view the world through a different lens. But they are still your family. They are your blood.

There is no reason to hate them. Instead, it should motivate you to teach them a better way of living. Even if you never manage to bring them to Satan, you can still find ways to improve their lives with the knowledge you possess by opening their minds and exposing them to different, healthier ways.

I encourage you to read this sermon by HP Hooded Cobra:
Family Values in Normal Life And Spiritual Satanism

 

[GoldenxChild1]

The family is a fundamental unit in Satanism and should be honored. However, from personal experience, I understand what it's like to feel disconnected and even apathetic towards your own family. I believe this is because a Satanist's soul is naturally farther along in development, and when interactions happen with lesser souls, even family, it creates disharmony. Although it is best to remember that they are still your kin.

In the future, the bonds of family will be restored to their previous meaning, but until then, look to your SS siblings and the Gods for familial fulfillment.

 

[Epiphany]

What is family? What is the meaning of having a brother and having parents?

How should I behave or how should I approach them?

I have a brother whose existence tells me nothing, sometimes or felt affection, many other times I hate him because he is useless.

With my mother I felt classic affection, but with time I had realized that that feeling did not correspond with her.

In my future they are not even there, which takes away from the meaning of the family, and I don't want to feel obligated to keep up with them just because they have blood in common.

I want to decide for myself what the destiny and my life is.

I feel that having lived multiple lives, this one is not really my mother, that is, the one who created me, and consequently this one is not my family.

I never had a strong sense of family. There was alot of disorder and dysfunction in my family, and illness. But I have the understanding now to see and appreciate the good that was in some of my family members, even if it's too late to show it now. I can understand now that not everything that is or was wrong with them was their fault, and much of it was out of ignorance.

They're victims of their karma, and I hope they find a better life and get a chance to heal & grow, if they are still out there. Maybe you and your family have your own karma to overcome also.

You can have relatives and not be familial with every one. But unless these people do things to hurt you, there is no reason to hate them or abandon them. I'm going to assume that you have a relatively normal family and nothing extraordinary and abusive is going on. Races and nations are built upon the strength of the family.

You only get 1 mom in this life. Love her while you have her. She tried her best to raise you and she cared for you. It doesn't matter if you had a different mother in a past life, she's still your mother in this life and deserves to be honored accordingly.

If you lived 10 lives are you going to dismiss the people who raised you in the other 9 just because they were not your "original creators"? Those lives are gone now, they've already been lived. You have to stay present in living this one.

And instead of hating your brother for being "useless", maybe you should help him become someone you love. See him for what he could be, and show him that. If you hate to look down on him, then help him up. Many humans are wretched compared to the gods, but they still meet us more than halfway and help us grow. They are truly graceful.