94n said:
I think some people push on their world view onto others, when other people experience different things.
For example" "I had a bad experience with videogames" -> "Therefore, people must also have the same bad experience" -> "Therefore I must stop people from playing videogames."
For videogames: It's an experience with its own community you can join, meet other people, discuss the arts, compete with other people, etc. For a lot of people it's bonding with others who are into similar things, and it's social interaction for many.
This is true for any hobby, or things you do for fun.
And we all can have a reasonable view on it right? If anything starts to negatively impact one's life, then it's time to reevaluate, or maybe let it down for a bit.
That's exactly it. Either it's a matter of taste, which is pointless to argue over, or it comes down to someone's individual hangups and projection of one's own inadequacies onto something else as a scapegoat. Like nofappers who blame masturbation for everything they don't like about their life, regardless of whether it has anything to do with it.
There's alot of dogmatism in health & lifestyle. Do this, don't do that. Never eat any of this, always eat X amount of that. Your problem is this one thing, never mind anything else. People that lack intuition, self knowledge and the ability to see the big picture buy into this and live by someone else's arbitrary rules without considering whether it makes sense in their situation with their goals and with who and what they are to live under those rules and without seeing for themselves whether it benefits them. As a result they end up on a treadmill(metaphor) at best or miserable and regressive at worst.
Like the diet debates. Or porn/masturbation. Or what you do for R&R. Or prescriptive exercise routines. There are universal truths like drugs being harmful, of course, but the majority of advice/dogma out there just keeps people confused and aimless and creates friction between them and has no consideration for the individual circumstances.
But at the same time I'm sure it's a fault of human nature. People just want to believe there's a quick and easy fix and that one culprit is responsible blame for all their problems. Never themselves, of course.