MercuryWisdom
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Hello brothers and sisters.
So I’m getting to know this new girl, who’s attracted to me and starting to get close and open up to me.
However, there are issues in this ordeal, most prominent one is, she’s muslim, and she takes this stuff seriously, and religion is usually included in her advice, affection, etc. in a caring way, however we all know what islam is really like.
In the past when I was less mature, I would react against this and let them know upfront I’m not that much into religion and be honest and true, didn’t end well. Just them knowing I don’t have the same mindset regarding religion can be problematic.
Right now, I just go with the flow and “act”. However, I know any relationship with that girl is doomed to fail mainly due to the religion thingy and that I’m not super into her.
She’s also loyal, and is looking for marriage only, so any type of relationship would be with the end goal of engagement then marriage, islamic marriage ofc.
Now the girl herself isn’t bad, she’s sweet, kind, affectionate, and naive in a way, also sensitive and was hurt before. I’m trying to be nice to her and treat her well.
This was a good thing at the beginning since I was feeling way too lonely and was lacking interaction with the opposite sex.
Now, I’m overall having slightly more abundance of the opposite sex or love interests/crushes, but this girl is also starting to fall for me and open up, she wants to be serious, I’m usually serious and loyal too, but I feel like I can’t be with her, she’s good to me but she isn’t the one.
I’m honestly more interested at this point in my life in more casual/sexual/flirty relations which she can’t satisfy.
How should I deal with this? I don’t feel like cutting ties, because I’m holding on to the affection she provides, but I’m not what she wants either and I can’t be.
Is there also a possible working/spell to attract casual/sexual/flirtatious types of relationships with people who are compatible and also none-religious/more liberal?
Also, can you also give me workings or tips to become more attractive/flirtatious myself?
I feel like I’m always the serious/obsessive/sensitive guy in any relationship, sometimes I just wish I can be the cool “fuckboi” who has multiple options of women that are attracted towards him, I hope I’m understood.
I just feel tired of my nature in love and wish I can just let loose and attract whoever I want than having to obsess or seeking to please someone. Is that possible?
Part of wanting this is because I’m way too attracted to fire and air women, despite having difficulty with compatibility because my type of love is different, it’s deep and solid like the ocean and the mountains.
However, I’m also deeply turned off by water women and some earth types which is counter-intuitive and weird but how it is for me since I was very young, I would naturally be obsessed with the popular/pretty fire/air types despite me not being the type of guy they’re attracted to, which is sad and hurts, somehow.
So I’m getting to know this new girl, who’s attracted to me and starting to get close and open up to me.
However, there are issues in this ordeal, most prominent one is, she’s muslim, and she takes this stuff seriously, and religion is usually included in her advice, affection, etc. in a caring way, however we all know what islam is really like.
In the past when I was less mature, I would react against this and let them know upfront I’m not that much into religion and be honest and true, didn’t end well. Just them knowing I don’t have the same mindset regarding religion can be problematic.
Right now, I just go with the flow and “act”. However, I know any relationship with that girl is doomed to fail mainly due to the religion thingy and that I’m not super into her.
She’s also loyal, and is looking for marriage only, so any type of relationship would be with the end goal of engagement then marriage, islamic marriage ofc.
Now the girl herself isn’t bad, she’s sweet, kind, affectionate, and naive in a way, also sensitive and was hurt before. I’m trying to be nice to her and treat her well.
This was a good thing at the beginning since I was feeling way too lonely and was lacking interaction with the opposite sex.
Now, I’m overall having slightly more abundance of the opposite sex or love interests/crushes, but this girl is also starting to fall for me and open up, she wants to be serious, I’m usually serious and loyal too, but I feel like I can’t be with her, she’s good to me but she isn’t the one.
I’m honestly more interested at this point in my life in more casual/sexual/flirty relations which she can’t satisfy.
How should I deal with this? I don’t feel like cutting ties, because I’m holding on to the affection she provides, but I’m not what she wants either and I can’t be.
Is there also a possible working/spell to attract casual/sexual/flirtatious types of relationships with people who are compatible and also none-religious/more liberal?
Also, can you also give me workings or tips to become more attractive/flirtatious myself?
I feel like I’m always the serious/obsessive/sensitive guy in any relationship, sometimes I just wish I can be the cool “fuckboi” who has multiple options of women that are attracted towards him, I hope I’m understood.
I just feel tired of my nature in love and wish I can just let loose and attract whoever I want than having to obsess or seeking to please someone. Is that possible?
Part of wanting this is because I’m way too attracted to fire and air women, despite having difficulty with compatibility because my type of love is different, it’s deep and solid like the ocean and the mountains.
However, I’m also deeply turned off by water women and some earth types which is counter-intuitive and weird but how it is for me since I was very young, I would naturally be obsessed with the popular/pretty fire/air types despite me not being the type of guy they’re attracted to, which is sad and hurts, somehow.