A girl falling for me, issues..

[MercuryWisdom]

Hello brothers and sisters.
So I’m getting to know this new girl, who’s attracted to me and starting to get close and open up to me.

However, there are issues in this ordeal, most prominent one is, she’s muslim, and she takes this stuff seriously, and religion is usually included in her advice, affection, etc. in a caring way, however we all know what islam is really like.

In the past when I was less mature, I would react against this and let them know upfront I’m not that much into religion and be honest and true, didn’t end well. Just them knowing I don’t have the same mindset regarding religion can be problematic.

Right now, I just go with the flow and “act”. However, I know any relationship with that girl is doomed to fail mainly due to the religion thingy and that I’m not super into her.

She’s also loyal, and is looking for marriage only, so any type of relationship would be with the end goal of engagement then marriage, islamic marriage ofc.

Now the girl herself isn’t bad, she’s sweet, kind, affectionate, and naive in a way, also sensitive and was hurt before. I’m trying to be nice to her and treat her well.

This was a good thing at the beginning since I was feeling way too lonely and was lacking interaction with the opposite sex.

Now, I’m overall having slightly more abundance of the opposite sex or love interests/crushes, but this girl is also starting to fall for me and open up, she wants to be serious, I’m usually serious and loyal too, but I feel like I can’t be with her, she’s good to me but she isn’t the one.

I’m honestly more interested at this point in my life in more casual/sexual/flirty relations which she can’t satisfy.

How should I deal with this? I don’t feel like cutting ties, because I’m holding on to the affection she provides, but I’m not what she wants either and I can’t be.

Is there also a possible working/spell to attract casual/sexual/flirtatious types of relationships with people who are compatible and also none-religious/more liberal?

Also, can you also give me workings or tips to become more attractive/flirtatious myself?

I feel like I’m always the serious/obsessive/sensitive guy in any relationship, sometimes I just wish I can be the cool “fuckboi” who has multiple options of women that are attracted towards him, I hope I’m understood.

I just feel tired of my nature in love and wish I can just let loose and attract whoever I want than having to obsess or seeking to please someone. Is that possible?

Part of wanting this is because I’m way too attracted to fire and air women, despite having difficulty with compatibility because my type of love is different, it’s deep and solid like the ocean and the mountains.

However, I’m also deeply turned off by water women and some earth types which is counter-intuitive and weird but how it is for me since I was very young, I would naturally be obsessed with the popular/pretty fire/air types despite me not being the type of guy they’re attracted to, which is sad and hurts, somehow.

 

[Wega]

Hello brother @MercuryWisdom
I decided to reply as a year ago I was in a situationship with a girl who was muslim. We were so into eachother, but she was reading their trash book, etc.

Truth is, this helped me realize a lot of things back then about how we should treat such occurrences in our lives.

Unless we do a magical working to potentially attract a Satanic partner, we are going to meet mostly partners that are not on the same spiritual path.
This is not entirely a bad thing and here is why:

We are of Satan. Through our spiritual path we are coming closer to the Gods and they are here to assist us in such matters if it concerns our well-being.
My personal experience was that I was somehow down to marry the girl even though she was muslim, I even had sex with her and was living in this fantasy world where she could be converted to a SS in the end.
I talked about the girl to Astarte after doing her Power Ritual.

Shortly after some things happened and magicallly we cut ties. Sooner I've realized that it was for the better of me.
But overall this gave me an unique experience and a positive mindset shift.

If you feel bad about the girl or yourself, here is my personal opinion:
We can totally fine move through such personal events that build us to become better in our future relationship/s, and
the fact that you are exchanging energies with this girl will manifest upon her soul positively sooner or later.

I hope this message helps you in some way!

 

[Wega]

I talked about the girl to Asterte after doing her Power Ritual.

Astarte* typo sorry. Moderator please can you change this mistake I double checked the text 3 times Idk how i missed it.

 

[LegionIshtar888]

hmmm did u feel she put black magic for love for you so u get caught with her. maybe u must testing in any spesific u are so in the future can good for you

 

[Matt.TheEnvoyOfSol]

Yaa that’s a red flag if it were me I’d just keep referring to her as a friend maybe she’d take the hint. Might lose interest all together though

You could try a material Venus square for a spell specify female companionship or though it is dependent on how strong your heart chakra and Venus in your chart is I would imagine.

 

[Ayssid]

I was in a similar situation as yours at one time.

In the past when I was less mature, I would react against this and let them know upfront I’m not that much into religion and be honest and true, didn’t end well. Just them knowing I don’t have the same mindset regarding religion can be problematic.

Right now, I just go with the flow and “act”. However, I know any relationship with that girl is doomed to fail mainly due to the religion thingy and that I’m not super into her.

This is delicate, and maybe it is me being young but I really don't see how acting is being more mature. Being honest upfront lets them know what to expect and what you're willing to do, but now she doesn't know you have these doubts, which is arguably even worse. Now, this isn't to defend her, I for one hate muslims with a passion, but if it was a woman more compatible with you, not being honest with these things can mislead her. If she didn't tell you she was a muslim or make it obvious, you'd have probably had sex with her and everything, which would be bad for you (idk your race either so I'm just speaking in terms of belief systems), and if I were me and she hid that from me I'd feel somewhat taken advantage of or lied to. If you're not into her, it is best to be honest about it, for both of your sakes.

Now the girl herself isn’t bad, she’s sweet, kind, affectionate, and naive in a way, also sensitive and was hurt before. I’m trying to be nice to her and treat her well.

This was a good thing at the beginning since I was feeling way too lonely and was lacking interaction with the opposite sex.

Now, I’m overall having slightly more abundance of the opposite sex or love interests/crushes, but this girl is also starting to fall for me and open up, she wants to be serious, I’m usually serious and loyal too, but I feel like I can’t be with her, she’s good to me but she isn’t the one.

I’m honestly more interested at this point in my life in more casual/sexual/flirty relations which she can’t satisfy.

How should I deal with this? I don’t feel like cutting ties, because I’m holding on to the affection she provides, but I’m not what she wants either and I can’t be.

It's admirable to be nice to people, and you should be, but if things are going into another direction, you must uphold your boundaries, that's all. This is me making assumptions from what I read, but it feels like you still need the affection for some reason. You said that it was tougher for you before, because you were feeling lonely, but holding onto this girl's affection when you're not into her to the point of acting around her seems, at first glance, like you're still feeling lonely. If you were really satisfied with the increased interactions you're getting I don't think you would hold on to her affection like this. Even if you want the flirtatious types, or casual relationships, I honestly believe you actually want a serious relationship anyway. Your behavior doesn't match your words here. Why would you want casual relationships yet hold on to this girl for no reason?

I feel like I’m always the serious/obsessive/sensitive guy in any relationship, sometimes I just wish I can be the cool “fuckboi” who has multiple options of women that are attracted towards him, I hope I’m understood.

I just feel tired of my nature in love and wish I can just let loose and attract whoever I want than having to obsess or seeking to please someone. Is that possible?

Part of wanting this is because I’m way too attracted to fire and air women, despite having difficulty with compatibility because my type of love is different, it’s deep and solid like the ocean and the mountains.

However, I’m also deeply turned off by water women and some earth types which is counter-intuitive and weird but how it is for me since I was very young, I would naturally be obsessed with the popular/pretty fire/air types despite me not being the type of guy they’re attracted to, which is sad and hurts, somehow.

I really don't know the types or how the elements work in men and women, so I can't say much about this, but taking the elements out of the equation, I assume you mean to say you want to attract the hot, playful and flirtatious types. You can, sure, but what matters is the type of relationship that you seek. You said your type of love is deep, and you should seek that type of relationship instead of trying to date casually. I think what you're asking us to provide here won't satisfy you. Maybe in the short run, but not in the long run. If you want to attract multiple women, the best thing you can actually do is harp on your strengths. If you look too hard you won't find anything. The more you want these fire/air women, the less you'll find them. Focus on highlighting the things that you're good at, the things that drive you. Women of all walks are attracted to men who have goals to strive for, those who have a direction in life and pursue it. That gives you a lot of confidence, which is also what I think may help you in this regard. You don't have to "let loose", don't try to mold yourself into an image that may not fit you, don't pretend to be anything other than what you really are. I can see myself in you because I am the same in terms of how I love and what I want, which is why I am relatively confident in my advice. Develop your talents and develop confidence, and you'll find yourself attracting a lot of women, and probably a lot of air/fire types that you really like. Also, don't discard immediately that the fire/air types are just not attracted to you "somehow". It's not like a pretty girl will se someone who is more nerdy and immediately run away like it's Usain Bolt in the 100m. That sounds more like you've closed your own doors than anything. As I said, I'm 100% sure you can attract the girls that you like, and you need to trust that you can do that too with the same degree of confidence.

Now, for the actual workings xD.
For attracting specific types of partners, any love spell will do, so long as you include the restrictions you wish in the affirmation. If you want casual sex, program your aura for it, the color is red I believe. That incites lust and you'll most likely get hookups. If you want to become more flirtatious yourself the best I can think of is to try to be more flirtatious yourself, while doing a Sun Square for confidence. I think that confidence is your main problem in this whole ordeal, and if you develop it you'll see how charming you can be.

I hope this wall of text is understandable, I kinda wrote it in a hurry. If you have any doubts regarding what I wrote, please ask.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

hmmm did u feel she put black magic for love for you so u get caught with her.

lol no.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

Hello brother @MercuryWisdom
I decided to reply as a year ago I was in a situationship with a girl who was muslim. We were so into eachother, but she was reading their trash book, etc.

Truth is, this helped me realize a lot of things back then about how we should treat such occurrences in our lives.

Unless we do a magical working to potentially attract a Satanic partner, we are going to meet mostly partners that are not on the same spiritual path.
This is not entirely a bad thing and here is why:

We are of Satan. Through our spiritual path we are coming closer to the Gods and they are here to assist us in such matters if it concerns our well-being.
My personal experience was that I was somehow down to marry the girl even though she was muslim, I even had sex with her and was living in this fantasy world where she could be converted to a SS in the end.
I talked about the girl to Astarte after doing her Power Ritual.

Shortly after some things happened and magicallly we cut ties. Sooner I've realized that it was for the better of me.
But overall this gave me an unique experience and a positive mindset shift.

If you feel bad about the girl or yourself, here is my personal opinion:
We can totally fine move through such personal events that build us to become better in our future relationship/s, and
the fact that you are exchanging energies with this girl will manifest upon her soul positively sooner or later.

I hope this message helps you in some way!

You’re right about this mindset. Thanks for sharing.

 

[Aarti]

im questioning why nobody (muslim or any) isnt propsing me or have an interest

 

[Aquarius]

I feel like I’m always the serious/obsessive/sensitive guy in any relationship, sometimes I just wish I can be the cool “fuckboi” who has multiple options of women that are attracted towards him, I hope I’m understood.

I feel like you're trying to be something that you're not.
Just an opinion.

 

[AFODO]

Send her the islamic evil site from a fake account, and see what happens. If your gut says that you should not be together with this person however, just don't.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

Send her the islamic evil site from a fake account, and see what happens. If your gut says that you should not be together with this person however, just don't.

No way this can happen, it’s not as simple as you think.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

im questioning why nobody (muslim or any) isnt propsing me or have an interest

Well usually if you’re a female with an interesting personality, good looks and good style/makeup there should be no shortage of guys who would die for you, lol.

It also depends on your age and putting yourself out there.

If you’re too young as in teenage years/post-puberty usually you would have less prospects than in college, if you’re too old as in over 30 that also Affects your prospects.

Best age for women getting prospects I think would be between 19 and 25.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

I feel like you're trying to be something that you're not.
Just an opinion.

I understand, and you’re right. However, I don’t know, it’s not that I’m trying to be someone different I just want it, I feel it would feel better, especially for my age and current environment.

I think you understand what I mean though.

 

[LegionIshtar888]

let see the progress u and her if her was fanatic u will know and u know must what for far away from her.

 

[Aquarius]

I understand, and you’re right. However, I don’t know, it’s not that I’m trying to be someone different I just want it, I feel it would feel better, especially for my age and current environment.

I think you understand what I mean though.

I totally understand what you mean. You're influenced by your environment. I worked hard at removing these kind of "environments" so I'm not really influenced by them, as such I already think about marriage and kids.

Do your best Brother, you're an awesome person.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

I totally understand what you mean. You're influenced by your environment. I worked hard at removing these kind of "environments" so I'm not really influenced by them, as such I already think about marriage and kids.

Do your best Brother, you're an awesome person.

Thank you! Happy to hear this from you.
Glad to hear you’re doing good.

 

[Soul Wings]

Yaa that’s a red flag if it were me I’d just keep referring to her as a friend maybe she’d take the hint. Might lose interest all together though

I wouldn't recommend being subtle. Communication and honesty is key in relationships - no matter how painful or awkward it is. It's okay to be honest and gentle with people when letting them down easy. You can tell a woman you aren't interested, so she can go and find someone who aligns with her morals/lifestyle/long term goals, whatever the case. If you know you aren't interested, don't string her along. Being a placeholder for the next one fucking sucks. This attracts and invites people to string you along in future, too.

Yes, people react emotionally to this, sometimes very badly and it's unavoidable. It's due to ego death. Take comfort in knowing you were honest and genuine, and allowed this person free to pursue the life they desire. In love, there is both joy and pain.

You are young Mercury as far as I am aware - a lot of young men I meet do not know what they want, do not want to commit or get married and just want fun. It's not unusual since the only way to find out is to experiment, the only reason someone should be ashamed of this is if they are lying, cheating etc about it. If you are honest you will attract honest women. Put out there how you want to be treated.

 

[Havoc]

It sounds like you’re still talking to this woman in the hope that she’ll give you sex. If she did it would be under the assumption that you love her and want to get married.

I find a lot of Arab men become Satanist because they just want to fuck women and acquire benefits. The actual point of spiritually is to seek the highest possible good and live in accordance with natural law.

Your passing up on a golden opportunity to get married and have children to chase western porn fantasies and I’d recommend you don’t do that, you’ve already spoken before about being a porn addict so you should try to fight the effects that has had on your brain with spiritual practices rather then being a “fuckboi”

Her being Muslim is a valid excuse not to want her but you can always have a conversation with her about Satanism, meany Muslim dislike jews and a lot of them become Muslim because they want to be good, so you have the opportunity to show her a higher good.

But she’s not going to be interested in being a sex object and if she does have sex with you under an assumption of good will and you betray her she’ll be crushed. The feeling of women are something you should care about.

 

[serpentwalker666]

It sounds like you’re still talking to this woman in the hope that she’ll give you sex. If she did it would be under the assumption that you love her and want to get married.

I find a lot of Arab men become Satanist because they just want to fuck women and acquire benefits. The actual point of spiritually is to seek the highest possible good and live in accordance with natural law.

Your passing up on a golden opportunity to get married and have children to chase western porn fantasies and I’d recommend you don’t do that, you’ve already spoken before about being a porn addict so you should try to fight the effects that has had on your brain with spiritual practices rather then being a “fuckboi”

Her being Muslim is a valid excuse not to want her but you can always have a conversation with her about Satanism, meany Muslim dislike jews and a lot of them become Muslim because they want to be good, so you have the opportunity to show her a higher good.

But she’s not going to be interested in being a sex object and if she does have sex with you under an assumption of good will and you betray her she’ll be crushed. The feeling of women are something you should care about.

I would be very careful with what you are suggesting here I do not think you fully understand the gravity of the situation you are trying to recommend...

Islam and Muslims are a bit different in that aspect. Christians are crazy but many won't react in the absolutely depraved ways a Muslim could. (Not saying they wouldn't, but your chances are lesser.)

They could get lucky and the conversation could go well, or you could have your door broken down in the dead of night and you end up deceased from being stabbed to death by a horde of enraged and insane Muslims, when the Muslim woman tells her family you are a devil worshipper and they take matters into their own hands and do what Muslims do best, destroy and spill blood.

It is NOT worth the risk.

I would just recommend MercuryWisdom find someone, have a relationship and keep their Satanism a secret.

Maybe in better circumstances they wouldn't have to do this, but in an Islam dominated nation one is playing with death if they think revealing their allegiance to Spiritual Satanism is a good idea.

 

[ModernMage]

"I do not allow friendly association with other people, nor do I deprive them that are my own and that obey me of anything that is good for them."

Focus on building yourself instead of taking whatever appears to you. When you feel you are ready do a working to attract the perfect partner for you. Don't be desperate because you are lonely or want to get laid.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

It sounds like you’re still talking to this woman in the hope that she’ll give you sex. If she did it would be under the assumption that you love her and want to get married.

I find a lot of Arab men become Satanist because they just want to fuck women and acquire benefits. The actual point of spiritually is to seek the highest possible good and live in accordance with natural law.

Your passing up on a golden opportunity to get married and have children to chase western porn fantasies and I’d recommend you don’t do that, you’ve already spoken before about being a porn addict so you should try to fight the effects that has had on your brain with spiritual practices rather then being a “fuckboi”

Her being Muslim is a valid excuse not to want her but you can always have a conversation with her about Satanism, meany Muslim dislike jews and a lot of them become Muslim because they want to be good, so you have the opportunity to show her a higher good.

But she’s not going to be interested in being a sex object and if she does have sex with you under an assumption of good will and you betray her she’ll be crushed. The feeling of women are something you should care about.

Dead post, don’t revive.
I’ve changed opinions, approaches, and no longer in contact with said person, not out of enmity, just distance.

Yeah sure I became an SS at 14 because I love fucking women, I am edgy like that.

 

[kaelgr]

If you feel like you can't be with her and that's not exactly what you're looking for, if your goals don't align, you should end communication with her. It's that simple.

 

[Henu the Great]

It sounds like you’re still talking to this woman in the hope that she’ll give you sex. If she did it would be under the assumption that you love her and want to get married.

I find a lot of Arab men become Satanist because they just want to fuck women and acquire benefits. The actual point of spiritually is to seek the highest possible good and live in accordance with natural law.

Your passing up on a golden opportunity to get married and have children to chase western porn fantasies and I’d recommend you don’t do that, you’ve already spoken before about being a porn addict so you should try to fight the effects that has had on your brain with spiritual practices rather then being a “fuckboi”

Her being Muslim is a valid excuse not to want her but you can always have a conversation with her about Satanism, meany Muslim dislike jews and a lot of them become Muslim because they want to be good, so you have the opportunity to show her a higher good.

But she’s not going to be interested in being a sex object and if she does have sex with you under an assumption of good will and you betray her she’ll be crushed. The feeling of women are something you should care about.

Be careful about such suggestions. It seems you have no idea how violent, ignorant, and even animal-like the average Muslim can be. In some states, there are death penalties related to religious beliefs which reflects the inner world of these people. It is an unnecessary gamble on one's life to spark a conversation on Satanism with ignorant people who are essentially sworn enemies in most cases.