Relationships #931 Tips for a meeting

[AskSatanOperator]

My boyfriend is coming from abroad, what can I do to make it perfect in every aspect and not leave it to chance? We met online. He will be here around February but I am already very stressed. For example, I don't have the money to buy a nice perfume, what can I do? Or I don't know if there is a good time to start the beauty spell until February, so that he finds me very, very beautiful. What kind of workings can I do for this?

 

[Lightning_Puma]

The working called be yourself and let this be how it is.

If it doesn't work out then it is not meant to be. These things should play out naturally.

Just be yourself. If he loves you for you anyways, why change yourself?

 

[OttoHart]

Turn every single device off, go somewhere quiet, and sit in complete silence for 20 minutes.
Do that again, while imagining that he is also right there next to you, also sitting in complete silence.
See what happens.
If you're comfortable in that situation, you're ready for whatever happens.

 

[OttoHart]

Turn every single device off, go somewhere quiet, and sit in complete silence for 20 minutes.
Do that again, while imagining that he is also right there next to you, also sitting in complete silence.
See what happens.
If you're comfortable in that situation, you're ready for whatever happens.

You will notice that this can't really be called a spell, barely a meditation, because it's just a thought exercise to help you realize that:
1. You should be comfortable in your skin no matter what.
2. If you genuinely feel love for this person, their presence alone will make you feel more comfortable in your skin.

Genuinely, no magick advice here. My advice? Chill.

 

[Yang]

The working called be yourself and let this be how it is.

If it doesn't work out then it is not meant to be. These things should play out naturally.

Just be yourself. If he loves you for you anyways, why change yourself?

The problem with the spell you want is quite clear: a good first date doesn't mean that things will work out between you, or maybe you're not good for each other and that good first date just hides it.
Look at your natal charts, analyze whether you're good for each other, and if you need to do a spell to make it work between you. As for the date itself, be yourself.

 

[Lightning_Puma]

The problem with the spell you want is quite clear: a good first date doesn't mean that things will work out between you, or maybe you're not good for each other and that good first date just hides it.
Look at your natal charts, analyze whether you're good for each other, and if you need to do a spell to make it work between you. As for the date itself, be yourself.

Perhaps doing a working to remove negative karmic issues would be better.

It worked for me.

 

[SeguaceDiSatanas]

First of all, my best wishes!

Note: This will be my simple opinion and I am not an expert on the subject.

what can I do

My little tip:
"You want to make a good impression:
A powerful aura will often influence others to grant you favors.
Affirm: “My aura is making a very positive impression on _______.” If this is a job interview, [“the person/s interviewing me tomorrow”, whatever]. “The people hearing my presentation, the group”, etc. Always state this in the present tense. The subconscious mind does not understand the word “will” and “will” never comes"

The Aura

perfect in every aspect

I have never come across or known anyone who has ever come across a "perfect in every aspect" situation. It's irreslistic. Even if your first date was perfect, you wouldn't gain from it, because the next ones might not be as perfect and in general a partner should be an accomplice to work together with.

Sometimes we need someone who supports us and not just someone who tells us: "you are perfect in every way, maybe if I knew the problems that afflict you we could work on them together and share a constructive discussion to build a healthy relationship, but I prefer to have a stereotyped and idealized image of you."

Obviously this is not suitable for the first meeting. But it's to make you understand how a serious relationship should proceed. If you already lay the foundations that you must be perfect and impeccable, you are laying foundations that when you want to build something on top of them and make the situation evolve, they will not be solid and as soon as your partner sees that you are a human being and you have not come out of a movie about Disney princesses, then it may not proceed as you expect. Just be who you really are and try to make a (sincere) good impression.

leave it to chance

You're not leaving things to chance. Trying to appear beautiful (putting on make-up, wearing perfume, dressing well or at deeper levels even behaving with dignity or even more programming your aura to make a good impression) is NOT "leaving something to chance". In the same way, carefully planning every type of artificial disguise to cover our true person is not "avoiding leaving something to chance", but would correspond more to having another person go to that meeting in your place. No, it is you with your true self who will have to meet the guy in person.

buy a nice perfume

It's okay to doing your best when dating someone. For example: I care a lot about hygiene when I'm in company, I never go out without having taken a very deep shower, making sure I smell good. And for when I go out for girls' nights out (even though I'm not the type to "one night sex" night after night, but it still seems dignified to appear a certain way with girls) I have even more specific products that still wash and smell better (even though I already use very good products).

But if by chance I run out of soap and have to use another one, I won't worry about "ruined evening, I'd better stay home tonight!". And I wouldn't panic because of the anxiety that: "oh no! I wanted to use the fruity shampoo, if I don't have the fruity one I'll lose points". Live it with more serenity.

But not just because you're more likely to make a lesser impression because of anxiety than you are because of "this perfume isn't exactly from this very expensive brand... now I have to use a perfume that costs half as much, ruined evening"; do it above all because by meeting that guy it is assumed that you mainly want to have fun with him by spending quality time with this person, not face a court martial.

You know, I once dated the girl I love. She was so pleasant and the time I spent with her was of such quality that it was actually the best evening I can remember. I don't remember what kind of perfume she had, when she hugged me I wasn't able to quantify the price of that perfume, but even today after almost a year I could tell you in detail everything that happened, how good we had and what it made us feel so good and why. But no, I don't remember how many 0s the cost of the perfume she used was.

 

[Scorpio]

There is no need to use expensive perfumes to make your body smell nice. Good body hygiene, diet and wearing clean clothes are enough to contribute for pleasant body odour, so you don't have to worry about this matter. (Unless there is a problem with unpleasant body odour despite proper body hygiene, however there are ways to deal with it, and those does not involve using perfumes).

It's clear that you care a lot about this meeting, which is understandable in a sense, but you won't see this man until February, and yet you're already stressing out quite a lot about this meeting. Don't overthink about what will potentially happen and try to relax more. Personally, a few years ago I used this pranayama technique to calm down, that is: inhaling for six seconds, holding it for six seconds, and exhaling for six seconds. (Just focus on your breathing and feel yourself calm down). If you feel uncomfortable holding for six seconds, you can lower it to, for example, four seconds - the point is to not overdo it. However, you can deal with stress in any other ways - going into a trance, void meditation, just to name a few. Additionally for beauty, you could breathe in green energy and state an affirmation according to your intentions.

For the upcoming date, dress comfortably and nicely, take care of proper body hygiene, choose a nice hairstyle and (optionally) you can do delicate face makeup. Be yourself during the meeting, do not pretend anything. Above all, relax and approach the meeting with a calmer attitude, as this will make the experience more pleasent for you, rather than worrying about details that may prevent you from fully enjoying the meeting.

 

[BlueWizard]

There are already many helpful comments here so I will just say good luck!