It is very wise to ignore dating apps like Tinder. In this area, you are strong, and you need to keep this strength as this is going to be appreciated very well by a high quality man that you would like to create a relationship with. Good men like smart women, not stupid ones. Such apps are supposed to create an illusion of choice for women and an illusion of miserability for men. In reality, algorithms behind the hood are set-up in such a way that both genders are left wrecked emotionally, spiritually, financially, etc. This is the modus operandi of the enemy to destroy humanity, especially the White race.
As for social networks, this is not a bad thing. Social networks can help you get among like-minded people which might help to find what you want. In other words, you need to socialize for your own emotional well-being. "House-work-house" is a form of slavery and you should know it well yourself. You deserve a much better treatment, but in order to get it you must take it for yourself. No one is going to put it for you on a silver platter.
If you don't like parties, clubs and drunk people around, this is fine. You are not supposed to like something that potentially disgusts you. Then, it would seem only social networks or groups where people gather regarding their common interests would be your option. And this is completely fine. In the past, people would find each other through common social circles, such as university, job, book clubs, etc.