Your feeling of boredom with men, doubts about their hygiene or belief in their lack of intelligence may be related not only to the objective qualities of the people you meet (
which,
of course,
cannot be denied or ignored), but also to
your Inner State, attitudes or the way you set yourself up for contact.
This situation can also have a Karmic basis, if you can't meet the right man or you just can't be with someone for a number of reasons. This is important and you need to work with it if this is the case.
Analyze your Natal Chart, specifically the
Positions and Houses which are responsible for
Relationships,
Sociality,
Love and
Sex, and you will most likely find the answer there already. In general, look at your Natal Chart,
taking into account all Aspects.
Work on your Aura,
Cleanse and Strengthen it, as you attract the best of what you can allow into your life. If your Aura is Strong enough, you will be able to use it to Influence other people and attract what you want into your life.
A Strong and Clear Aura is an important component of your well-being in everything and everywhere, both in everyday life and in Magical Workings.
Reconsider your beliefs and personal experiences. Perhaps some negative impressions from past relationships or communication with a particular circle of men are
extrapolated to the entire male gender. Observe whether some stereotypes are not laid in you, which work as
«blinders» that distort objective reality. You will be surprised, but this happens often.
Often people judge others based only on people from a small social circle. If you have so far only met people who don't meet your standards or values, it may be worth changing your environment.
This is where you can work with your Introspection and Mentality.
If you get bored when talking to men, perhaps it's not just them, but also the way you present topics or the way you talk.
Try opening dialog through what is truly interesting and meaningful to you. You do realize that
maintaining a dialog is a two-way process. The more consciously you approach the dialog, the more likely you are to take the conversation to a deep level. A man here might be shyer than you or not particularly proactive, and you might think he's boring and can't have a constructive conversation with you.
Try to be more sensitive to this and create a supportive,
relaxed environment for this to happen.
Try to look more gently at the men you get to know, and at the same time do not abandon your sincere
values,
standards and
priorities. Because even though there are objectively stupid and uncivilized men, there are also those who only seem like that to you, but are a completely different persons. If it is important for you to convey your view of the relationship to a man, then
tell him what for you the beauty of life,
how you like to spend time,
what you want from the joint future,
what qualities you value in your potential partner, etc. When a person sees specifics, it is easier for him to understand and accept your requests.
But do not expect that a man will give up his values and priorities, giving in to you in them. Everyone has their own
«standards» and their own
«ideal». Even your most ideal partner will have certain
flaws or
traits that may not suit you.
I would advise you to look at the Synastry with the person with whom you will be in a serious relationship later on. This way you will be able to understand, roughly speaking,
what attracts you and what repels you,
what you have in common.
There will be an understanding of the Nature of your relationship and of both of you in this relationship, which is extremely important, although it will take time.
The Sun Square &
the Mars Square can help you to find your partner. There is also very useful
Magic Working from Voice of Enki for love relationships.
