Other #76646 Is it possible your cat is incompatible with you?

[AskSatanOperator]

I've always liked cats, but this is my first one my family has bought and I absolutely hate him. He genuinely makes my blood boil.

It feel's ridiculous saying this about a cat, but he seriously pisses me off like no one ever has.

Worse, I thought cat's were supposed to be cool and distant, but he's constantly wanting attention/stimulation no matter how much you play with him. Completely disobedient, no matter how much training you do.

I live in a flat which makes it worse.

Is there anything I can do or should I just get rid of him?

Genuinely insufferable in his current state.

 

[Recycler1337]

You are responsible for those you tame.

You need to work on yourself and your attitude towards animals, they are sacred.

If you are not willing to move forward and change, give him to good, kind hands.

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

I've always liked cats, but this is my first one my family has bought and I absolutely hate him. He genuinely makes my blood boil.

It feel's ridiculous saying this about a cat, but he seriously pisses me off like no one ever has.

Worse, I thought cat's were supposed to be cool and distant, but he's constantly wanting attention/stimulation no matter how much you play with him. Completely disobedient, no matter how much training you do.

I live in a flat which makes it worse.

Is there anything I can do or should I just get rid of him?

Genuinely insufferable in his current state.

Rid of him...

What a filthy piece of shit such a thought. It is not the cat that is incompatible with you, it is you who cannot understand the sacredness of an innocent and defenseless life and your response to the cat's life is to either to kill him "in the best way possible" or at least throw it away like he was garbage.

Yes, there is a way to get that cat out of your way and that is to give it to someone who truly deserves such a presence in his/her life. And don't worry, any kind of breathing human being would be happy to take it if you presented the topic to them as boldly as you anonymously posted your wishes against this cat.

I urge you myself, as the proud owner of a wild cat who has voluntarily decided to live with me despite the fact that she is not domesticated and therefore decides to stay at home only because she has found a safe love, to make sure that someone healthy takes the cat before the cat suffers any more.

 

[Lightning_Puma]

I've always liked cats, but this is my first one my family has bought and I absolutely hate him. He genuinely makes my blood boil.

It feel's ridiculous saying this about a cat, but he seriously pisses me off like no one ever has.

Worse, I thought cat's were supposed to be cool and distant, but he's constantly wanting attention/stimulation no matter how much you play with him. Completely disobedient, no matter how much training you do.

I live in a flat which makes it worse.

Is there anything I can do or should I just get rid of him?

Genuinely insufferable in his current state.

If I could, I'd take your cat in a heartbeat.

The way you are now you do not deserve to have animals in your life until you get your immaturity and stupidity out of your system.

Nobody is forcing you to like anything, but hating them and wanting to get rid of them?? Too much.

 

[HPS Lydia]

Most cats are affectionate and need attention. Always do research before deciding on a pet. You can do a small working to ensure to find a better home for him. You can't really train cats btw, they are very independent and demand free run of the home.

You might prefer having something like a lizard, tarantula, snake, or fish instead. Something that stays in an aquarium, but make sure it's big enough for health and happiness.

 

[Rocca]

i would tell you they get much calmer the older they get. but
regarding the fact of you using words like obedience, training and cats in the same sentence.
no this will never work out especially if this is a male cat

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

Worse, I thought cat's were supposed to be cool and distant, but he's constantly wanting attention/stimulation no matter how much you play with him. Completely disobedient, no matter how much training you do.

I have seen many different cats, I always try to get in touch with them when I meet in the street. Each of them had a very unique behavior, they can be very different from each other.
Cats have feelings, as far as I know cats who have been detached from their mother too early, grow keeping alive some "childish" behavior. For example if you caress and play with them in a certain way so they can slightly bite your hand, they can start moving their paws like if they "pump" the milk out of their mother's, that they do when they are very young.
You can try to do this with your cat and see if he cools down a bit and become less "affection-seeker".

I also think keeping a cat in apartment without a way to go out is a bit against their nature. Is there a way you can let him go out from time to time? They need to go around, hunt, walk and run - probably this is also why your cat is nervous?

As a last chance, in case he is really messing up too much in a small flat and does not calm down a bit with time - you could consider finding a new family for him, who maybe have a garden or an open place for him to have fun. Yes they do need to have fun too! Getting rid of him sounds a bit rude.. maybe accomodating him to a new life would suit.

 

[DarkPagan666]

Animals deserve the utmost respect. You can call upon Goddess Bastet (Hagenti) through her ritual to help you strengthen your bond with your cat.

Training and guiding a pet is important in many respects, though, animals have their own personalities, instincts, and needs. If you don’t fully understand them, take the time to learn. A responsible pet owner learns to understand and accommodate their pet’s nature rather than forcing them to conform entirely to human expectations. Building a strong bond often means adapting to their communication style, comfort levels, and behaviors.

I live in a different city from my parents, and every time I visit, I always make sure to greet our cat. Though he has a rough-and-tumble personality, he is incredibly sensitive beneath the surface, full of emotion and character. He’s truly wonderful! Sometimes, after I leave, he falls ill from missing me, and it breaks my heart. When I’m away, I sometimes send him energy, to let him know I’m still with him in spirit, even though I'm not physically present.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

It is bad to let cats outside. There are thousands of species of birds, small mammals, and lizards that are going extinct because of pet cats hunting them.

But it is important to play with them and give them toys in a way that simulates hunting, so they have a way to use their energy. Like a stick with a string on the end, and a ball with feathers on the end. Swing that around and the cat will catch it and hunt it like catching a bird.

Give the cat a nice place to sit by the window with a pillow, towel, or small blanket folded up, where the cat can sit in the sun and watch the birds and squirrels outside. Putting a bird feeder will help the birds, and also attract them for the cat to watch.

 

[AskSatanOperator]

Most cats are affectionate and need attention. Always do research before deciding on a pet. You can do a small working to ensure to find a better home for him. You can't really train cats btw, they are very independent and demand free run of the home.

You might prefer having something like a lizard, tarantula, snake, or fish instead. Something that stays in an aquarium, but make sure it's big enough for health and happiness.

Thank you for your advice, unfortunately the other's lack a proper understanding and are just reacting emotionally, but I've seen other people's cat's and they were pretty decently behaved, so long as they were receiving adequate affection/play/food.

There are multiple people who all give him attention but he always wants more, and rarely get's tired throughout the day. Unfortunately, I don't think he belongs in an apartment but either in a Garden home or become a streetcat or something. He's too adventurous and chaotic to be kept indoors for more than a few hours... I can't even keep my windows open anymore because he constantly tries to jump off the building and explore the surrounding terrain since day 1.

Perhaps the previous owner treated him poorly, I don't know, but I've been patient with him for 8 month's and I'm at my breaking point, especially with work and other responsibilities piling on. I've tried everything, but he just pisses and shit's everywhere, and is a menace generally. He know's how to use the litterbox, but he'll still piss himself on the spot or behind the TV and damage all the electrics regardless of anything.

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I wanted to know if there was anything I could've done, or if it's just an astrological thing sometimes? Because I really don't see how he'd function normally in any sort of household.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

Thank you for your advice, unfortunately the other's lack a proper understanding and are just reacting emotionally, but I've seen other people's cat's and they were pretty decently behaved, so long as they were receiving adequate affection/play/food.

There are multiple people who all give him attention but he always wants more, and rarely get's tired throughout the day. Unfortunately, I don't think he belongs in an apartment but either in a Garden home or become a streetcat or something. He's too adventurous and chaotic to be kept indoors for more than a few hours... I can't even keep my windows open anymore because he constantly tries to jump off the building and explore the surrounding terrain since day 1.

Perhaps the previous owner treated him poorly, I don't know, but I've been patient with him for 8 month's and I'm at my breaking point, especially with work and other responsibilities piling on. I've tried everything, but he just pisses and shit's everywhere, and is a menace generally. He know's how to use the litterbox, but he'll still piss himself on the spot or behind the TV and damage all the electrics regardless of anything.

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I wanted to know if there was anything I could've done, or if it's just an astrological thing sometimes? Because I really don't see how he'd function normally in any sort of household.

Was he never neutered? Male cats are likely to pee everywhere to try to mark their territory if they were never neutered. Or they do this from stress and not feeling comfortable or safe. Or he can have a health problem like a kidney problem.

 

[Umun]

It is bad to let cats outside. There are thousands of species of birds, small mammals, and lizards that are going extinct because of pet cats hunting them.

But it is important to play with them and give them toys in a way that simulates hunting, so they have a way to use their energy. Like a stick with a string on the end, and a ball with feathers on the end. Swing that around and the cat will catch it and hunt it like catching a bird.

Give the cat a nice place to sit by the window with a pillow, towel, or small blanket folded up, where the cat can sit in the sun and watch the birds and squirrels outside. Putting a bird feeder will help the birds, and also attract them for the cat to watch.

That's an interesting perspective. Firstly I don't think cats are truly pets. I view them as friends that decided to grace us with their presence and should be treated with more respect than species which are less capable of existing on their own like dogs. Don't get me wrong, I love all life forms and live with both a dog and cats (and some chickens too) and they all get along very well.

I let my cats in and out as they please because otherwise it would be a restrictive measure limiting the social and other aspects of their life leading to a lesser quality existence. These ones are not so interested in hunting apart from a few insects but one of the previous ones was so skilled and brought me a bloody pigeon in bed once, headless squirrel and what not, not a good way to wake up.

Anyways, you did get me thinking if there's a way to at least limit their harmful impact on the environment. I still wouldn't lock them up though. I do worry when they're out even if they don't go far, usually in the few neighboring yards, but they have friends, spots, a life. I worry much more about my children going to the local store alone or going to and from school still at some point you have to. They don't hunt local wildlife btw. Sorry I got a bit off topic and thanx for opening a new subject to think about.

 

[HPS Lydia]

Thank you for your advice, unfortunately the other's lack a proper understanding and are just reacting emotionally, but I've seen other people's cat's and they were pretty decently behaved, so long as they were receiving adequate affection/play/food.

There are multiple people who all give him attention but he always wants more, and rarely get's tired throughout the day. Unfortunately, I don't think he belongs in an apartment but either in a Garden home or become a streetcat or something. He's too adventurous and chaotic to be kept indoors for more than a few hours... I can't even keep my windows open anymore because he constantly tries to jump off the building and explore the surrounding terrain since day 1.

Perhaps the previous owner treated him poorly, I don't know, but I've been patient with him for 8 month's and I'm at my breaking point, especially with work and other responsibilities piling on. I've tried everything, but he just pisses and shit's everywhere, and is a menace generally. He know's how to use the litterbox, but he'll still piss himself on the spot or behind the TV and damage all the electrics regardless of anything.

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I wanted to know if there was anything I could've done, or if it's just an astrological thing sometimes? Because I really don't see how he'd function normally in any sort of household.

Your cat is different from most, then. It could be his natal chart. Or as Ol Argedco said, could be from not being neutered or a health problem. Does he seem stressed overall? He might feel insecure. I watched a show once with a friend about cats, and if they see other cats or dogs outside they get stressed out and urinate in their home everywhere.

You might have to look for a forum online about cats specifically, there are experts and vets who give help.

 

[L E E]

You must not be angry with your pet if his behavior does not meet your expectations. This is not his problem, but a character trait that you must respect and appreciate. Indeed, you should have taken care in advance to study the breed you are taking, as well as to clarify these details with the past owners or those who knew the cat.

Pets, whatever they may be, are like little brothers and sisters to us. All animals are from Father Satan/Zeus and are a gift from the Gods, they are given to us by the Gods and are Sacred to Humanity. Imagine if the Gods treated you this way if you did not live up to theirs expectations. This does not happen and it is impossible, because our Gods and Demons are infinitely Wise to show themselves like this, so take an example from them. We are like pets to the Gods. We must take care and protect them. Even if they sometimes do not behave as we wish.

It is normal, because every animal is an individual, they have Soul, Chakras, Nadis, Aura, they are living Beings, they have feelings and emotions and feel us when we are angry, upset or happy. Take this fact into account and change your attitude. Your situation is understandable, I understand you, but be patient and reasonable.

 

[L E E]

There are multiple people who all give him attention but he always wants more, and rarely get's tired throughout the day. Unfortunately, I don't think he belongs in an apartment but either in a Garden home or become a streetcat or something. He's too adventurous and chaotic to be kept indoors for more than a few hours... I can't even keep my windows open anymore because he constantly tries to jump off the building and explore the surrounding terrain since day 1.

Perhaps the previous owner treated him poorly, I don't know, but I've been patient with him for 8 month's and I'm at my breaking point, especially with work and other responsibilities piling on. I've tried everything, but he just pisses and shit's everywhere, and is a menace generally. He know's how to use the litterbox, but he'll still piss himself on the spot or behind the TV and damage all the electrics regardless of anything.

Most likely your cat is very active, he needs more exercise, more in comparison to other cats. He needs more games in which he can fully display his hunting instincts, so that he can feel dominant and awaken it in him, otherwise, if he does not get enough physical activity, he may even feel depressed and tense, show reclusive emotions due to depression (yes, this is possible, cats have their own psychology, but it is correctable).

It is also likely that your cat needs more free and safe space. If you lived in a private house in the suburb, you could create something like an aviary or a fenced area where the cat can explore the environment without the risk of running away or getting into dangerous situations (although this is more relevant for dogs, but some cats have a more wild character and may need open space, which is quite natural, given their Nature). I understand that in your situation this option is impossible, so I would think about how to create the most comfortable conditions for the pet in the apartment, in terms of freedom of movement. I had a similar problem with my cat, but I solved it by simply opening the doors to all rooms so that the cat could move around, my cat really doesn't like closed doors. Although you can train them to a harness and walk them on a leash. This will give them a chance to explore the world while remaining under your control. Of course, provided your cat allows it. Many people walk their cats this way, despite the stereotype that this is exclusively dog behavior. Very active cats find salvation in this way, so they can release their energy outside the four walls.

If the cat continues to pee and poop in inappropriate places, I would suggest that it could be a sign of stress or a medical problem. See your veterinarian to rule out possible medical conditions such as urinary tract infections. This is a common situation. I would also suggest that you try to re-train your cat to use the litter box. Make sure the litter tray is clean and in a place that is comfortable for him. If he continues to ignore the litter tray, try using different types of fillers or litter trays. My cat ignored a certain type of litter box filler because of the odor he was uncomfortable with, and he often peed on the bed. The problem was solved when I purchased a different litter box filler for him. It is important to note here that if your cat likes any type of litter box filler and litter box, he goes to the toilet there, then do not change them, because the cat is already used to the smell, he has marked the territory there, and the change of these components for him is tantamount to a change of environment. After that, use one type of filler and one litter box for one pet. And yes, as correctly noted here, make sure your cat is spayed or neutered.

If things don't improve, it may be worth contacting a professional animal behavior trainer or a veterinarian who specializes in behavior. They can make recommendations based on your specific case. Some professionals are even able to correct cats' behavioral mechanisms. This is certainly not training, cats are difficult to train, but they can be developed conditioned reflexes and certain patterns. In the Spiritual sense it can even be done through Merging Astral Consciousness and Installation of Telepathic Signals (any animal can have a strong Telepathic Connection and even control its behavior, as well as treat the animal, etc.), but one can go the way of Psychophysiology and try to find a solution in this way.

In the end, if you really feel you can't cope with the cat, it may be worth considering placing it in caring hands where it can get the attention and space it needs to live. As such incompatibility, which is what we mean by Synastry, is not present here, it's just that you're not used to this breed and this kind of pet character. Just don't feel anger, aggression or irritation because of it. Just this cat needs more attention, activity and care, he is unique and you should not blame him for it.

 

[Engineered Trasformation]

It is also likely that your cat needs more free and safe space. If you lived in a private house in the suburb, you could create something like an aviary or a fenced area where the cat can explore the environment without the risk of running away or getting into dangerous situations

I fully agree, good idea!
I struggled hard when I had a cat, to build a fence or a limitation to the area where he could run free. No way, he always found a way to get out, they are really smart at it!
So I fully understood their nature, that is of being free and not restricted. At the end, they restrict themselves as the area in which they wanted is limited, they do not explore beyoned a certain point and almost all of them return home.
Also, when I have been forced to let him closed in the apartment, for outside road works causing danger, he got depressed and looking out of the window did not help as he wanted to go out
Like if you show me the picture of a pizza and you don't give me any pizza. Don't do that!

 

[AskSatanOperator]

Your cat is different from most, then. It could be his natal chart. Or as Ol Argedco said, could be from not being neutered or a health problem. Does he seem stressed overall? He might feel insecure. I watched a show once with a friend about cats, and if they see other cats or dogs outside they get stressed out and urinate in their home everywhere.

You might have to look for a forum online about cats specifically, there are experts and vets who give help.

I'm not sure what would him being insecure look like or behaviours it would exhibit? It could be the case. Because I don't think he's sick, just very physical oriented. Idk about stressed, but he seems extremely restless and hyperactive.

I don't want to let him go unless I have to, which I probably will have to unless I can find a way to get him to chill out a bit.

It is bad to let cats outside. There are thousands of species of birds, small mammals, and lizards that are going extinct because of pet cats hunting them.

But it is important to play with them and give them toys in a way that simulates hunting, so they have a way to use their energy. Like a stick with a string on the end, and a ball with feathers on the end. Swing that around and the cat will catch it and hunt it like catching a bird.

Give the cat a nice place to sit by the window with a pillow, towel, or small blanket folded up, where the cat can sit in the sun and watch the birds and squirrels outside. Putting a bird feeder will help the birds, and also attract them for the cat to watch.

I have bought multiple of those toys you mentioned because he immediately get's bored and want's a new stimulus. He will play with it once, for about an hour, then he will never react to that same toy ever again unless I buy it in another color/design. Unfortunately, I can't afford to stuff the whole of Toys R Us into my stock room, so it never lasts. At least if it was for a few weeks he'd play with it it'd be easier to manage. He requires way too much stimulation, and has a constant 'new shiny object' syndrome.

I did put him next to the window, and that's how he jumped out to chase the birds (Idk how he even fit through the gap) and actually fell off the roof onto the groundfloor once and hurt his leg... and then he fking did it again on a different window I didn't realise was open without learning his lesson. Now I leave it closed but he will just cry and scratch at the window... occasionally he will just chill out on a sunny day with a patch of light warming him up, but I live in a cold climate so it's a bit rare.

The 2nd window is a literal hunting ground of birds, because it as at a level with the neighbours roof and LOADS of birds show up within arms length since we always leave bread and other leftovers for them to eat. But unfortunately he get's carried away and goes to like 5 houses down and I almost had to call the firetruck cos he wouldn't come back until I enticed him with YouTube mp3 sounds of female cat mating calls.

Your cat is different from most, then. It could be his natal chart. Or as Ol Argedco said, could be from not being neutered or a health problem. Does he seem stressed overall? He might feel insecure. I watched a show once with a friend about cats, and if they see other cats or dogs outside they get stressed out and urinate in their home everywhere.

You might have to look for a forum online about cats specifically, there are experts and vets who give help.

I don't think he is sick, he seems like he's doing it out of some sort of "masculine imperative". Because I can see in his eyes he is actually very emotionally intelligent and understands human emotions, but also has this vibe of "cunning", he knows what is considered "bad behaviour" but will still go out of his way to troll you for his own amusement (not to me though, but other's living with me have said this and they constantly hound me to get rid of him).

Many seem to have equated my saying "get rid of him" with killing him (wtf...?) I was just repeating what the other's said to me, implying to sell or give him to someone else. He's a rare, and very very handsome cat, lol, I'm sure I could fetch a good price, but I've grown attached to him. But he's like having an EXTREMELY irritating and idiotic son, but a son nonetheless.

Was he never neutered? Male cats are likely to pee everywhere to try to mark their territory if they were never neutered. Or they do this from stress and not feeling comfortable or safe. Or he can have a health problem like a kidney problem.

No, I didn't neuter him cos I felt bad about it, but I guess maybe it's necessary.

Most likely your cat is very active, he needs more exercise, more in comparison to other cats. He needs more games in which he can fully display his hunting instincts, so that he can feel dominant and awaken it in him, otherwise, if he does not get enough physical activity, he may even feel depressed and tense, show reclusive emotions due to depression (yes, this is possible, cats have their own psychology, but it is correctable).

It is also likely that your cat needs more free and safe space. If you lived in a private house in the suburb, you could create something like an aviary or a fenced area where the cat can explore the environment without the risk of running away or getting into dangerous situations (although this is more relevant for dogs, but some cats have a more wild character and may need open space, which is quite natural, given their Nature). I understand that in your situation this option is impossible, so I would think about how to create the most comfortable conditions for the pet in the apartment, in terms of freedom of movement. I had a similar problem with my cat, but I solved it by simply opening the doors to all rooms so that the cat could move around, my cat really doesn't like closed doors. Although you can train them to a harness and walk them on a leash. This will give them a chance to explore the world while remaining under your control. Of course, provided your cat allows it. Many people walk their cats this way, despite the stereotype that this is exclusively dog behavior. Very active cats find salvation in this way, so they can release their energy outside the four walls.

If the cat continues to pee and poop in inappropriate places, I would suggest that it could be a sign of stress or a medical problem. See your veterinarian to rule out possible medical conditions such as urinary tract infections. This is a common situation. I would also suggest that you try to re-train your cat to use the litter box. Make sure the litter tray is clean and in a place that is comfortable for him. If he continues to ignore the litter tray, try using different types of fillers or litter trays. My cat ignored a certain type of litter box filler because of the odor he was uncomfortable with, and he often peed on the bed. The problem was solved when I purchased a different litter box filler for him. It is important to note here that if your cat likes any type of litter box filler and litter box, he goes to the toilet there, then do not change them, because the cat is already used to the smell, he has marked the territory there, and the change of these components for him is tantamount to a change of environment. After that, use one type of filler and one litter box for one pet. And yes, as correctly noted here, make sure your cat is spayed or neutered.

If things don't improve, it may be worth contacting a professional animal behavior trainer or a veterinarian who specializes in behavior. They can make recommendations based on your specific case. Some professionals are even able to correct cats' behavioral mechanisms. This is certainly not training, cats are difficult to train, but they can be developed conditioned reflexes and certain patterns. In the Spiritual sense it can even be done through Merging Astral Consciousness and Installation of Telepathic Signals (any animal can have a strong Telepathic Connection and even control its behavior, as well as treat the animal, etc.), but one can go the way of Psychophysiology and try to find a solution in this way.

In the end, if you really feel you can't cope with the cat, it may be worth considering placing it in caring hands where it can get the attention and space it needs to live. As such incompatibility, which is what we mean by Synastry, is not present here, it's just that you're not used to this breed and this kind of pet character. Just don't feel anger, aggression or irritation because of it. Just this cat needs more attention, activity and care, he is unique and you should not blame him for it.

I tried to put a leash on him but he refuses to move until you take it off and otherwise will just try to rip it off himself and scream if you don't.

And if I ATTEMPT to take him near the front door he will scream and run away, so he weirdly seems to fear it but I don't know why. And he won't go into the cat carrier in a similar way, as there is an association... you have to trick him into doing everything. It's like Batman vs Joker with him half the time.

 

[HPS Lydia]

He sounds like he has quite the personality, trolling the others you live with.

If he's rare and handsome and not neutered, perhaps a breeder would like to have him, someone with a larger home. I understand that it would be upsetting to be parted from him though.

 

[Henu the Great]

I think this cat type is unsuitable for city life/apartment living. Neutering the cat might calm it down, but that's a workaround solution, honestly.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

This is what happens with male cats that were never neutered. They often grow up to be wild. I don't think neutering it now will make any difference, it is too late.

Keeping windows closed is important if there is not a screen in the window to keep him in. Cats can usually escape through any hole that they can fit their head through.

 

[Tethys333]

I've always liked cats, but this is my first one my family has bought and I absolutely hate him. He genuinely makes my blood boil.

depends a lot on the cat's background and how it was raised. It is up to you to educate him, cats are very intelligent, trust that he will understand after a while.

Worse, I thought cat's were supposed to be cool and distant, but he's constantly wanting attention/stimulation no matter how much you play with him. Completely disobedient, no matter how much training you do.

aren't you happy about that? You are very lucky. You have a little friend who can tell when you are hurting and when there is no one there to cuddle you he is there.
If he wants to be cuddled by you it is because he likes you, don't misjudge him.

Is there anything I can do or should I just get rid of him?

LOVE IT. If not, give him a new family capable of appreciating it more

 

[Umun]

Just an idea. What if you bought / constructed him a running wheel? You know, like a hamster wheel just cat sized. I've seen some indoor cats appreciate that type of exercise, it might help him get some of that extra energy out and be more relaxed as a result.

I'd love to take him off your hands if there was no other option but we're probably not even on the same continent. Btw the neutering thing is not necessarily a solution or an explanation for his behaviors. For ex. an adult tomcat probably around 2yo came in the building where I used to live and the moment I saw him I knew I had to take him home. He hasn't been and won't be neutered but he's the best behaved cat I've ever seen in my life.

So, good luck and I hope you find a way to coexist

 

[vandanara]

Kedileri her zaman sevdi, ama ailesinin aldığı ilk kediyi ve ondan kesinlikle nefret ediyorum. enerji kanımı kaynatıyor.

Bir kedi hakkında bunu söylemek saçma olabilir ama o beni daha önce hiç kimse yapmadığı kadar sinirlendiriyor.

Daha kötü, kedilerin soğukkanlı ve mesafeli olması sıcaklığım, ama ne kadar oynarsanız oynayın sürekli ilgi/uyarılma istiyor. Ne kadar eğitim verirseniz verin, tamamen itaatsiz olun.

Apartmanda yaşıyorum, bu durum daha da kötüleşiyor.

Yapabileceğim bir şey var mı yoksa ondan kurtulmalı mıyım?

Şu anki şekliyle gerçekten da

I think this cat type is unsuitable for city life/apartment living. Neutering the cat might calm it down, but that's a workaround solution, honestly.

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