Family #76580 Number of children for a single mother

[AskSatanOperator]

Is having 3 or more children wrong?
I'm a young woman and I'm no longer a teen
I'm planning to make my life stable enough to have kids in the future
Marriage doesn't last these days so I may never try it because it won't last anyways
I love children a lot and I will want to have them
Is this frowned upon by Gods?
I know single motherhood is fine my question is about intentional single motherhood
I mean planning to become a single mother in the future as I find it more stable for children
I fear marriage and its consequences
I'm not promiscuous at all and dont have any intention to have that lifestyle.
I just see no point in modern day marriage as it ends in divorce anyways
I need help with pregnancy ethics
Standards for parenthood

 

[Aleksios]

No, it's so beautiful. I want a big family too. Why do you think you're not young? I'm sure you're very beautiful.
New marriages don't end in divorce. I'm sure you'll have a very good marriage.

This is a very long period and I understand that you are worried.

 

[Lightning_Puma]

Children need both parents. Mothers for the more feminine, beauty role models and one connecting to their emotions and Fathers so the children can grow up being confident and have better material wealth in one's life as well as what to strive for in one's life as well as relationships.

A child cannot grow up without another, they need both.
If it wasn't necessary, women wouldn't need to get pregnant in the first place, which comes from a man. A union between two people is sacred and a child needs both role models.

Work upon yourself and free of negative karma controlling your life and then when the time is right, both for you and astrologically - do a love spell to attract the right partner to yourself and have a beautiful, loving, Satanic family.

 

[Aquarius]

deprogram yourself from these lies that "marriages don't last", they do and can last, you find the right man and it's gonna be great.

 

[Epiphany]

deprogram yourself from these lies that "marriages don't last", they do and can last, you find the right man and it's gonna be great.

People these days rush into things, or confuse infatuation with love, and many are unwilling to do the work that goes into real love. I know somebody who's been married for decades and they told me that there were points early in the marriage where divorce was on the table.

It took counseling and changes by both people, but they've been happy together ever since. Decades. And they have grandkids now.

That doesn't happen often, because it demands goodness, awareness and effort. And you could say that if both people aren't willing to try for each other and for their kids, then love was never there to begin with.

You shouldn't be afraid to find a good man to marry. Other people's failures don't belong to you. Other people's problems aren't your problem.

But you shouldn't make your failure or unwillingness to find a husband your children's problem, by making them grow up without a father, which will also mean growing up without a mother because you will then have to work more and be away from your kids.

 

[Epiphany]

People these days rush into things, or confuse infatuation with love, and many are unwilling to do the work that goes into real love. I know somebody who's been married for decades and they told me that there were points early in the marriage where divorce was on the table.

It took counseling and changes by both people, but they've been happy together ever since. Decades. And they have grandkids now.

That doesn't happen often, because it demands goodness, awareness and effort. And you could say that if both people aren't willing to try for each other and for their kids, then love was never there to begin with.

You shouldn't be afraid to find a good man to marry. Other people's failures don't belong to you. Other people's problems aren't your problem.

But you shouldn't make your failure or unwillingness to find a husband your children's problem, by making them grow up without a father, which will also mean growing up without a mother because you will then have to work more and be away from your kids.

Sorry Aquarius, this wasn't really meant to be a reply to you, it was for OP.

 

[Epiphany]

I fear marriage and its consequences
I'm not promiscuous at all and dont have any intention to have that lifestyle.
I just see no point in modern day marriage as it ends in divorce anyways

Also, 70% of divorces are initiated by women, and the courts tend to favor women. If you pick a good man and have genuine love then there is nothing to fear.