Greetings, Brother / Sister!
This should not be just repressed (because this is built by forces of your chart and soul, repression will not work and will only make it worse). This should be sublimated into the right cause. Only best people and things / causes should be lived for via this dedicated way.
For example, HPS Maxine says on the website that there is nothing wrong with making Father Zeus the center of your life simply because he deserves this. Not everyone can live according to the highly individualist egocentric ways forced by kikes in the West now. Some people are designed to be dedicated and loyal to someone or something. But this should take different forms than it takes in most abrahamic andrapodas because they give themselves to the wholly wrong things, people and religions. The desire to totally dissolve in the affair or the person is natural for many people and can be seen in their charts, but the abuse of it - is what the enemy wants to see here, because if you only "dissolve" in the unworthy practices then the Earth will not advance in anything worthwhile which is the goal of the enemy.
I think the "annoying" comes from the fact of these people being unworthy of such your lifestyle towards them, not the lifestyle itself. If this lifestyle were given to service to our Gods for example this would pay off and would not be seen as anything shameful. As well as investing into a worthy person in this way.
Kikes who infiltrated the West, when people come to them with a problem of their time and dedication being abused, usually teach people to "not love" or to "not serve" or to be disloyal and egocentric concentrating only on their own so called "human rights". While in the East people never fought against their natural need to give their everything, to belong, to sacrifice, to serve and to worship another. Indian women still walk circles around their husbands to show that their husbands are like Gods for them, because walking circles is how the Gods/Heroes are traditionally worshiped there. The way they usually solved the problem of such their attitude being abused, is being more selective in whom they dealt with. This is how nature ensure that only right genes pass through.
By this I only wish to say that nature gave us this or that force for a reason. It is natural to tend to worship the desired sex, especially when we have for example exalted Pluto with all feminine planets in hard aspects. This is just a raw natural force inside us. We have to use it in good conscience.
The same goes for the choice of profession and everything else. Just to give yourself to nothing and to realize in nothing is not a solution. It will bring you to no heights.
