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I hate worrying about things I cannot control. What should I do?
I don’t understand why my relationship with my father has deteriorated so much. I feel envious of other girls whose fathers love them deeply, treating them well even as they grow older and continuing to see them as their princesses. I don’t know what I did wrong. Perhaps it’s because I grew up, and he didn’t like that. Nowadays, he treats me like a stranger, and, to be honest, I no longer feel the desire to be around him.
 
I think you should try to be assertive and ask him directly what is going on. If he is open to dialogue, this approach, as a first step, could allow clarity and avoid unnecessary assumptions. Many factors can come into play in life and lead to certain behaviors; assuming that you did something wrong or that you are the cause of someone else’s change in behavior may be a mistake. The emotional distance could instead be due to other difficulties his going through or negative thoughts, which are not easy to express, but it is not necessarily linked to a lack of affection. Some people are simply unable to manage what they are feeling.
 
I hate worrying about things I cannot control. What should I do?
I don’t understand why my relationship with my father has deteriorated so much. I feel envious of other girls whose fathers love them deeply, treating them well even as they grow older and continuing to see them as their princesses. I don’t know what I did wrong. Perhaps it’s because I grew up, and he didn’t like that. Nowadays, he treats me like a stranger, and, to be honest, I no longer feel the desire to be around him.

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I hate worrying about things I cannot control. What should I do?
I don’t understand why my relationship with my father has deteriorated so much. I feel envious of other girls whose fathers love them deeply, treating them well even as they grow older and continuing to see them as their princesses. I don’t know what I did wrong. Perhaps it’s because I grew up, and he didn’t like that. Nowadays, he treats me like a stranger, and, to be honest, I no longer feel the desire to be around him.
Some people just grow distant as their paths diverge. Relationships are like plants, you have to water and care for them. Transits could be at play that influence estrangement from your father or family. He could be experiencing transits of his own, or depression(which can cause people to clam up), or any number of things.

It's probably nothing to do with you, there could be things on his mind that he might not know how to deal with.

Try to stay close with him, think of a way to spend time and bond together. You could try mentioning that it feels like you're getting distant from each other, like SaqqaraNox said.
 

Al Jilwah: Chapter IV

"It is my desire that all my followers unite in a bond of unity, lest those who are without prevail against them." - Satan

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