I think they don't expect me to go out of my house and see a person outside and just grab him and talk to him.
See if this could help you:
Obviously the person will not ring your doorbell. So it is right to focus on social life so that your spell has a chance to manifest.
A long time ago I programmed my aura to attract a specific amount of money and I actually found it without even leaving my house after a few hours. But certain things like a partner can definitely require an active search.
One night I programmed my aura to attract a sexual partner to me, but I had to go out and go to a bar for this girl to come to me, if I had stayed home, she would not have knocked on my door. Also focus on adjusting the affirmation in a way that is appropriate to your needs, but without going into too much detail to put unnecessary limits on your spell. Coordinate with the Moon and Planets of course.
There are so many interesting social settings to meet someone in. I honestly don't like the "bar" thing too much, but at the time my friends wanted to go there and I was still testing my powers to get to know myself better, so I took advantage of it.
But there are people out there or on social media who have very good relationships and I want it like everyone wants it.
You don't really know what other people are going through. Maybe they have seemingly beautiful relationships on social media, but they are empty in reality. Maybe the others who are envied have no personal advancement other than the fact that once a week they can post a stupid photo. Instagram is not the book of truth...
Having love is a very beautiful and important thing, and your desire should focus on that: how beautiful such a thing is. Don't focus on "look at others, how cool".