Venus square for friendship and similar

[Tongoenabiago]

Good evening, brothers!

I saw that the Venus square affects social activities...

Well, I moved to the capital a few years ago mainly to study and work, so I never had time or interest in friendships. So, I have made practically no friends here, but I recognize my fault in that, hahaha
Now that I have more time and even miss social contacts and interactions, I would like to change that.
Is it possible to act on this with the Venus square?

I wanted to attract and make friends as well as perhaps change my behavior, that is, know how to tell stories, be more extroverted... But the main focus is on making friends

Any suggestions for affirmations that could help in this case and if the Venus square would be ideal for this?

 

[Symmachos-ZEUS/SHAITAN]

Is it possible to act on this with the Venus square?

Certainly, as shown on JoS page on the Venus Square, it is a very useful spiritual means, even if it is advanced, if you can make use of it, it will surely be a way to completely change your situation for the better.

be more extroverted

It's not so much that you should be more extrovert in my opinion, the right focus would be finding the people to be more extrovert with. You can't blame yourself if someone is a little bit obnoxious to you and it comes so naturally to you to be introverted. I have a lot of friends today who were the ones I used to hang out with in high school, for years I hung out with them just for the sake of being in their company, but I didn't say a word, I was just “sitting there” listening to them. Years have passed and I have now gotten to know them well, and I am the center of attention with my talk every time, because there is no point in being introverted with people you feel you can open up to.

know how to tell stories

This is something that will come naturally to you in the company of others. Spending time with a group of friends is not “storytelling.” I thought that as a child, too, but it is definitely not. Follow the thread of what is said in the company. If someone is telling what they did the night before, you can come up with a sarcastic comment, hyperbole, “lecture,” or whatever is your natural tendency at the time. You are not there to see who can tell the most exciting story. You're just having a cheerful time, it's not an anxious endurance contest, and you're not standing in apnea resisting social pressure. Just enjoy the moment.

change my behavior

Don't change your behavior for others. It is not universally a wrong thing to change the way you are. There are instances when hanging out with decent people can lead you to want to take on the good example and become the best version of youself, or if you have a bad habit such as denigrating absentees in front of people who are incapable of minding their own business, when it is pointed out to you then it is okay to want to change this bad attitude of yours. But that which is your true nature and essence, DO NOT change it. Also because if you change your normal behavior for others, it is not only true that even your new personality may or may not be liked as well as just that old original one of yours, but you will also be less spontaneous, more forced, others will notice it and you will literally become a speck, a stereotype, something not natural. So be yourself, it really is the best option.

Any suggestions for affirmations

I don't want to recommend any affirmations since I don't know any better what you are going through or what you would like. But I will put some links that can help you understand how to structure this affirmation. The rest will depend on your imagination:

The Three Steps of Witchcraft

Overcoming Obstacles