The problem of sex isn't age (even if there is a pretty *big* difference in age between you) or even if you are or are not the same gender.
It is about trust, and being with the right person(s).
Consenting is critical. That is REAL consent, not just heavy "encouragement" by a potential partner who wants your body v- vv badly.
If you are *young* you probably want to take serious precautions about pregnancy. Especially until you are of 'legal age.' There are three to know about. The first, obviously is being on 'the pill.' The second is the 'moring after pill.' The third is timing. In general, if your periods are regular - 28 days or so, then you have a window from about 5 days before your period starts, until about 7 days after your period starts that is safe to indulge in unprotected sex (and during your period - not gross or disgusting, just messy - thats what wash cloths and showers are for
Also, there are other ways to have sex besides just vaginal intercourse. Hygene is important.
The second thing to worry about is sexually transmitted disease. Here you have to be very careful. Some of the people that you trust the most can (and do) give you a whole lot of things that can't be cured by a whole butt load of penicillin, especially if you don't know about it to act quickly.
Probably the thing that is most important is your emotions. Is this someone that you are REALLY willing to spend a whole lot of the rest of you life with? Not just because you are in love or in lust, or just because they can make it feel really good. You are getting into real commitment here, and you have to be sure that the other person is mature enough to meet your needs, *all* of your needs, for a long, long time. [[Such as paying the rent, the heating bill, food on the table, enough diapers, emotional support when you are down, a way to get ot work or school, etc.]] Being willing to take the time and effort to be sure that both of you really do please each other is very important.
Within my group, we encourage physical fun, including a lot of sex (one-on-one or even orgies.) But we are very careful who we admit to our group. We know each other well, very well. We watch and take care of each other. And we have serious plans in place just in case somebody does get PG. We also heavily discourage sex with people who are not members of the group. We stress you making sure that your partner has even more fun and pleasure than you do.
We don't let new comers into this level of participation until we are sure, *very sure* that they can be trusted, and have the commitment to stay the course.
Safety first!!
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[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "Seth" <jri9vero@... wrote:
There is no problem with that if u are OK with it & as long as it is consenting.
Sex is extremely useful in arousing ur kundalin and empowering ur chakras. Because of this the church is very much against sex as it a pathway to empowering the soul.
But please be safe and know exactly what ur doing.
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[url=mailto:[email protected]][email protected][/url], "roxy_falloutgirl" <roxy_falloutgirl@ wrote:
is it bad if you do sexual things with people, even if your somewhat young as long as the guy is around your age group??
would satan apporove??