Crystallized Mushroom said:
Yeah, you have to use Tinder or other fast hookup apps and keep your intentions clear. You need to focus on pure sex appeal to make sex happen within on first contact. Y
ou should not to do anything for them in terms of gift giving, multiple hangouts, or anything romantic or friendship-oriented for sex to happen. If you do these things, it will confuse your intentions and make you seem desperate because you have to resort to other measures for sex. Don't do these things.
To get sex within the first contact, you need to have the raw sex appeal. The date itself is just a means for you to further attract the person through this sex appeal. With this in mind, you have to focus on masculine traits and how to increase them. You should focus on developing your physical masculinity, mental masculinity, and general cosmetic improvements. Masculinity is obviously both physical and mental, but it helps to view them separately for the sake of analysis.
Physical masculinity means your androgenic profile and testosterone, your clothing, your mannerisms and body language, musculature, and hair style.
- Androgenic profile: Increasing your testosterone can happen through many avenues. You want to think of boosting the androgenic activity and minimizing the estrogenic activity. Boosting it involves eating enough saturated fat, drinking enough water, getting enough proper sleep (before 11pm, minimize blue light), exercise (prioritize yoga, then do others), eating enough veggies/nuts for proper zinc, magnesium, selenium, and other nutrients, and overall minimizing stress. From a TCM perspective, you want to focus on kidney health, specifically kidney yang. Anything that boosts or protects kidney yang will give you more testosterone. Last, but not least, consider supplementing boron (about ~9mg per day) to increase free testosterone in the blood. Boron alone will produce a noticeable effect and I would recommend trying it.
- For minimizing estrogenic activity, your primary opponent is the xenoestrogens (chemicals that mimic estrogen) that pervade the clownworld we live in. Your main exposure to them will be through the water supply (both drinking and bathing), any hygiene products, soaps of all kinds, plastics or any petroleum products, any cleaning products, all non-organic foods. Smaller sources include the treatments on leather and carpet and other household items. With this in mind, you will want to install filters on your showerhead or any tap you drink from. You will want to replace all your hygiene and cleaning products with organic/clean/eco-friendly alternatives, with some being easier to replace than others (might have to try multiple products). Lastly, try to get organic food as much as possible.
- From a TCM perspective, the liver is responsible for removing excess estrogen in the body (especially purely toxic xenoestrogens). If the liver becomes stagnated, this will impede the removal of estrogen from the body. Minimize heavy meals near bed time, keep up the exercise, and include lots of green vegetables in your diet to support the liver. If you are of the kapha dosha, you will want to do extra to fight against this and all stagnation forms.
- For clothing and hair style, favor things that focus more on dominant items. You don't want your clothing to be cute or funny, or paint yourself as weak. It can be hard to logically delineate between what is flashy and what signals femininity. Go further than searching just "men's fashion", but search like dominant male clothing or hairstyles. You don't need to adopt flashy gangster clothing; rather your look should be simply mature and in-control. Do the opposite of reddit soyboys.
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Mental masculinity involves adopting or promoting the behaviors and mannerisms associated with dominance and low stress. To summarize it, be direct in your actions and speaking. Know that you are important and your thoughts are worth listening to. You don't need permission by anyone to walk towards something, reach for something, relax, or speak out on something. Think about how you act when you are at home or by yourself, which should be comfortable and confident.
The summary of these behaviors is just about placing high value on yourself. Some degree of this can be highly exaggerated, like seen with rappers and other degenerates, however a big part of it is feeling stronger or more worthy than what reality may suggest. The reason for this is because people pay attention more to what they think you are willing to do, not the total effect. In other words, if you are willing to get up and leave, or willing to fight, or willing to argue, this is more important, even if the other person knows you may not win the fight, or if your role is insignificant.
You might be thinking like why does this matter?
It matters because people place subconscious importance or value on these sort of behaviors and they respect them. Friends will look up to you and for your support. Women will be attracted to it and want to spend time with you. In a business setting, both coworkers and opponents will think you hold more value or will do more damage than you might be capable. They will listen to you more readily.
Take time to read about this, then try to force some of these things into habit. These behaviors will happen more naturally the more you increase your physical testosterone.
Also, don't smile like a retard for pictures or for people you just met. You don't have to be bend-over backwards friendly to people you don't know. You don't need to smile in a picture just to prove that you are there and part of the group. Giant smiles might make you seem friendly, but they also make you seem weaker, gullible, naive, etc.
Take note of the men in my profile pic and gif. They are not smiling like children and waving up and down for the camera.
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General cosmetic improvements are those that are not necessarily gender-based, but will improve your appearance overall. Most are synonymous with regular hygiene, but you should go above and beyond in some aspects, "detailing" your body to make it look better.
- Any hairstyle or facial hair style you choose should always have the look of being well-kempt. Go for a shorter look if you are unsure. Beards do not look good when they are giant crazy hives. Women like hair density, not hair length. Hair length stops being useful and starts looking unkempt when the length of the follicles doesn't "add" any appearance of density. In other words, grow it a little bit so it covers patches, but not so it hangs off your face.
- You should floss and brush daily, of course. Use an automatic brush to better clean all around. Get a mid-range one (~$30-40). The cheap ones are garbage, but the expensive ones are gimmicky. Consider oil pulling while in the shower, which will prevent bacterial plaques, such as behind your teeth.
- Consider whitening your teeth. I am not convinced the toothpaste and mouthwashes do that much for whitening. Hydrogen peroxide or other peroxide-based agents will work well. Best method would be the custom-made trays for your teeth which you then add a whitening agent to. Wear them while doing chores or trimming your facial hair or something.
- Make sure your finger and toenails are kept clean and short. Cut them, them file them briefly. If you have gunk in your toenails from socks, make sure to remove it, perhaps with the file.
- Trim all body hair such that it is neat. This means trimming the nose, ears, even eyebrows if you must. You can leave chest hair, but maybe trim it down a little. Keep genital area clean, use a manscaper or small trimmer for testicles and other delicate areas. Trim unsightly parts like shoulders or where ever.
- Shower at least every couple of days, going based off body smells. Use deodorant daily. Don't use antiperspirant, however, as this is unhealthy (and wouldn't be included in any natural products anyway). You can use cologne, but this is not as mandatory.
- Launder and dry clothes so they don't smell at all. Turn inside out and wash on cold so they don't get faded or destroyed.
Anyway, I definitely wrote too much, but hopefully you learn a thing or two. Obviously your spiritual advancement matters way more than this stuff does, just use this as a guideline to make sure you are not making any considerable errors. Good luck.
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