monomotapa 2
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- Feb 15, 2025
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I hv read through most relationship post here trying to make sense of it all and it seems that a relationship should not always be a serious relationship until you feel like it
My only understanding of relationships was the one towards the God's.I grew up here.yet when it comes to outside it's not necessary for it to be serious.It's natural to hv multiple and endless relationships.this I now understand and there nothing wrong with this
But the question now comes to How families are started.to be honest few are based on love,a few are just based on respect and 90 percent are just mistakes or rather it just happened.so it's clear that most thing's that do end up happening to families are there own choice especially the negatives,
I cannot deal with the selfishness of this fact.becoz of the pain that Will be inflicted upon, those who are serious and wouldn't want to hurt others,the children and the coming generations,so for those of us who are emotionally deep.Jos seems to be the only answer.
I also understand a part now why Commander is fully dedicated to This place now.
My only understanding of relationships was the one towards the God's.I grew up here.yet when it comes to outside it's not necessary for it to be serious.It's natural to hv multiple and endless relationships.this I now understand and there nothing wrong with this
But the question now comes to How families are started.to be honest few are based on love,a few are just based on respect and 90 percent are just mistakes or rather it just happened.so it's clear that most thing's that do end up happening to families are there own choice especially the negatives,
I cannot deal with the selfishness of this fact.becoz of the pain that Will be inflicted upon, those who are serious and wouldn't want to hurt others,the children and the coming generations,so for those of us who are emotionally deep.Jos seems to be the only answer.
I also understand a part now why Commander is fully dedicated to This place now.