STEVENNEWTH666 said:
I can give you suggestions to improve and enhance your connection with her.
Before making love, cleanse your soul and raise your energies in some way, then start a golden thread from the first chakra and connect it to your partner's first chakra, repeat the process for all seven chakras.
You will have to visualise the chakras becoming brighter and brighter and as they are influenced more and more by your partner, you will have to come to surrender to her energies in an uncontrolled way.
Your partner will most likely lead the entire meditation.
Then conclude with an affirmation, an example might be:
"My chakras are completely connected to your chakras, in the deepest and most complete way possible, now and forever".
You have to make the affirmation as if you were making a very intimate declaration of love.
The affirmation can be made for each chakra, even if it takes much longer.
When you are done, you can make love or whatever you want, I personally used it as part of the preliminares.
Another tip is to masturbate by focusing on a specific chakra of your partner.
I wouldn't have anything else to tell you about this other than to experiment and try.
These tips will cover the connection aspect, for the rest you will have to advance and activate your astral senses.
You will notice that with each passing month, your connection and relationship with your partner will improve, my advice is to celebrate the month anniversary in some way, or take the first of the month as a point to check progress.
This can give you an idea of the progress made, and you can set yourself new goals.
In the beginning you can hug a pillow to get a more physical feeling, it sounds ridiculous, but there are times when I felt my partner's body by caressing a pillow, I am referring to the body shapes.
This can be temporarily helpful to you, because she already feels everything you do to her.