Question #4511: advice here how to love yourself when you think you are garbage

[AskSatanOperator]

How to love yourself if you don't like the way you look?

 

[WiseDragon]

How to love yourself if you don't like the way you look?

Focus on things that really matter. Also, this is my opinion, but this modern obsession with loving one's self is kind of weird. Do I respect myself? That's the question one should ask. The way one gains respect for himself is with his actions.

 

[Sonne]

You have to be merciful to yourself as well.

Sometimes people may have the feeling that their personality and their appearance are inadequate, that they are inferior to other people, but what should not be forgotten is the effort.

You are a human being. You are doing your best and you are really trying, and that is the most important thing. In time, like a caterpillar becoming a butterfly, you will reveal your true potential.

Spiritual transformation techniques are particularly useful in supporting this change. The important thing is to have the will, the effort, and to do what is necessary. You have done the first two. The next thing is to find out what you need to do. Identify your problems and come up with solutions on how to solve them. Don't hesitate to consult us.

Giving up is where it all really ends. You haven't given up yet, so why should you now? You are closer than ever and you must continue.

Satan and the Gods will guide you along the way.

 

[NakedPluto [JG]]

You don't have to look "good" to like and feel good in your own skin. The first step is to stop objectifying and separating a judgment of yourself here. This is all bullshit most of the time, just a cynical mind trying to find faults where there are none or unimportant, to just produce worry as there's a lack of it or too much of it. To look actually good means internal harmony that reflects in attitude and control. Make yourself feel good by doing some self-care routines and things like that. When life becomes hard, you don't care how you look at all because you have much heavier things to deal with. If you ever glimpsed that or will, add these two, and you are very good to go in life. No obsessive caring + purpose + self-care by action = a care-free, self-loving life.

 

[Hellenic SS]

Meditations you should try:

Sacral Chakra Meditation

: For confidence in your appearance

Solar 666 Chakra Meditation

: For energy and charisma

 

[Epiphany]

Count your blessings, something as superficial as appearance is very easy to change. What if you thought you were garbage because of what is on the inside?

 

[Hellenic SS]

You can also try looksmaxxing. Some methods are extreme and foolish, but many of them actually work.