Weight isn't the issue you can be 230lbs and be a star linebacker with muscular body. Or you can be 230 and be a tub of lard.
What you want to lose is excess, unhealthy, and unwanted fat.
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Consider this and be aware of the realities around you. Consider running for example or jump rope, burns a lot of fat and calories 0.1 per jump so about 10 jumps equals 1 calorie you can burn more calories in 10-15 minutes than a 9 mile run plus the metabolic rate is increased so much jump rope experts have mentioned even 3 days after workout there is signs of heightened metabolic rate.
Consider parking in a safe place but far away from the mall or your location. Don't forget where you parked but try considerations to that. Try to get more physically grounded into reality and stress the body. Try and walk a lot , walking = very healthy. Perhaps after eating your meals whether you eat once, twice, or thrice or more a day consider spending 20 minutes after eating taking a walk around the block a few times to digest the food like the Chinese do.
There is a myriad of things direct and indirect ways to lose excess fat.
Also cut down on excessive carbs, moderate your carbs. NEVER! remove carbs from your diet it's very important but in moderation. Consider eating a bit more protein and try and consider eating in moderation fat for example eating a piece of butter or a small amount of olive oil is good to keep you fuller longer so you aren't snacking around and putting things in your body.
Consider basically creating a schedule around eating and eat at appropriate times and appropriate meals. Consider reduction of sugar try and maintain low sugar intake, empty calories particularly empty carbs. Try and study the food stickers for the daily percentage so you aren't over eating bad stuff.
BTW saturated fats in moderation are a way to stress your body. Don't over eat saturated fats but do consider consuming some just like carbs your body needs it but in moderation.