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Another letter was posted in the Teen group today. A girl is a virgin. She is comfortable with this. Her friend was wondering whether she would have to "lose her virginity in order to become a Satanist."
The point is- remember true Satanism is about being yourself and being free. No one is expected to do anything that they are uncomfortable with or anything that is not a part of their nature.
I allow everyone to follow the dictates of his own nature
— Satan [from the Al Jilwah]
Feeling shame about sex has to do with unclean and blocked sacral chakra. It would do good for you to remove these issues and whatever hangups you might have about sex. This is not to say that you must have sex, but having a healthy expression of oneself is what we strive for.