Question #2698: solar plexus and confidence

[AskSatanOperator]

How do I have the confidence I have at home when I go out?? I am extremely confident, funny and friendly only alone, not around people. I would like people to see my true personality, will it take a long time for me to be confident working on my solar plexus every day? Unfortunately, I know that there is no exact date because everyone is different and honestly I go crazy when I remember this because it gives me an emptiness that 10 years could pass and still nothing.

 

[MiniMe3388]

How old are you? Young people are often not confident. In time you will become confident and with the tools available from JoS it won't take long (you can start Sun Square or use the Wunjo/Sowilo runes).

Also, work on your self-esteem, practice assertiveness, try to face your fears, work on interpersonal communication, etc.

Good luck!

 

[Hs666]

Working on yourself, and on your Soul, not just on the 3 chakras, will help you reach your goal.

 

[Alexandros Iowno [JG]]

When you are alone you feel safe, or your brain thinks so, and in social relations you perceive threats upon yourself in a subconscious way. Your job is to be able to feel safe in the perceived "dangerous" situations. New situations, new circumstances, new people and so on create a ground of caution, in which expansion is blocked. Take your time to understand this during situations such as these and also, you can force a little bit to expand yourself, but this does not mean fake it, but pressing upon the matter in your mind, and as, so you can regulate consciously your behaviour.

Secondly, to have confidence, you have to do things that make you confident, and this means yourself being proud of actions and things that you do consciously. This means living your life, experiencing it, growing. Upon this, life builds itself and this won't be any matter of sensing or theory but natural embodiment. If you know internally you have nothing to be proud of in a penetrative or stationary "bull" way, of course the body follows the nature of hiding, evading and invisibility as to conserve itself.

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

All I can say is more practice talking to a lot people. Male and female, all different ages, and all different types of jobs. With practice, you will get used to it and you will become much more confident to talk to anybody.