Azorm
Member
Basically, we need to keep focusing more on ourselves. I'm one huge fucking empath often and I would do everything for others but, in most cases it's best not to do anything but to focus on myself. Most of the time when people here want too hard to help others, to be heroes, saviours or whatever they often end up doing more harm than good, and instead of helping others they damage everyone in the end. It's okay to help others and to be empathic, but looking more objectively at the situation will let us see that obsessing too much over helping others in most cases ends up being bad for everyone. Best way one individual can help an unit/group usually is to look out for him/herself the most. Ofc there are some situations when some heroes are needed but usually for a unit to work nicely and to progress one has a responsibility to take care of his/her own problems. So if we are in a war and if we really want to help each other then we should focus on our own progress and healing.
Sometimes in some other times and situations we will be helping each others on some other more empathic ways, but now we need more discipline and little bit colder and controlled behaviour if we gonna win this war properly. We are social creatures and we need each other a lot, it's just how things tend to work sometimes...
I love healing others. I consider myself kinda good at it and if often takes weeks, months or even years to fix some problems for others and it makes me feel really weak. Once I almost got sick because I was healing one person for months and I was using more energy than I managed to take in myself in one day. It's crazy how hard it can be. And yeah doing too many workings at the same time can put us behind apparently.
Also it's funny how many of us here don't even have a job or a proper place to stay...lot of us have crazy health and mental/emotional problems....Idk anymore how I can even consider helping others that much and they will have barely any results from that , while I barely can survive on my own here. Like, I have no job nor idea how to even find one, Idk even how will I manage to keep one and to have one normal life actually. I also got to heal myself and to fix tons of stuff... We would all benefit as a group if we could at least fix some basic stuff in our lives and not waste our energies so much around...
Idea is nice, tho not practical at all.
Sometimes in some other times and situations we will be helping each others on some other more empathic ways, but now we need more discipline and little bit colder and controlled behaviour if we gonna win this war properly. We are social creatures and we need each other a lot, it's just how things tend to work sometimes...
I love healing others. I consider myself kinda good at it and if often takes weeks, months or even years to fix some problems for others and it makes me feel really weak. Once I almost got sick because I was healing one person for months and I was using more energy than I managed to take in myself in one day. It's crazy how hard it can be. And yeah doing too many workings at the same time can put us behind apparently.
Also it's funny how many of us here don't even have a job or a proper place to stay...lot of us have crazy health and mental/emotional problems....Idk anymore how I can even consider helping others that much and they will have barely any results from that , while I barely can survive on my own here. Like, I have no job nor idea how to even find one, Idk even how will I manage to keep one and to have one normal life actually. I also got to heal myself and to fix tons of stuff... We would all benefit as a group if we could at least fix some basic stuff in our lives and not waste our energies so much around...
Idea is nice, tho not practical at all.