I've been successful in attracting a partner, but can I just be a friend without sex?

[Sun Squad]

It's very strange, I saw a cute girl after 1 day of the magic of attracting a partner and I really liked her, but I just want to be friends with her without sex? Like, for example, gays and girls are friends, support and protect her, but at the same time I get excited, can I somehow put a block. excitement from it?

 

[FeetSmeller69]

Don't jump to conclusions too soon. You can see a cute girl in literally every other instance of your life, seeing one just after starting a working is not a sufficient indicator that is working. It might, but chances are it's just confirmation bias on your part. Stay open to signs or patterns, focusing on this one girl might ruin your working. This only applies if you live in a regular place on Earth, I don't know what place there is on this planet that has so many ugly women you can't find a cute one walking around (I actually know it's Tel Aviv xD).
That being said, the affirmation you choose fine tunes what you get. If you want something that is platonic, you should specify that in your affirmation when doing the working.

 

[Onbael_]

It's very strange, I saw a cute girl after 1 day of the magic of attracting a partner and I really liked her, but I just want to be friends with her without sex? Like, for example, gays and girls are friends, support and protect her, but at the same time I get excited, can I somehow put a block. excitement from it?

I don't see the point in your question.

If you have a connection or want to have a connection with this person, be yourself and do what you think is best.
Calling it "friendship" or "relationship" is pointless, one doesn't exclude sex and the other doesn't ensure that sex is there, what are you worried about?
In any case, no one is forcing you to have sex.

Ask yourself whether your desire to want a partner, or to have a connection with this girl, is a thought influenced by ignorance or passion, or whether you have something Divine in mind.

 

[Sun Squad]

I don't see the point in your question.

If you have a connection or want to have a connection with this person, be yourself and do what you think is best.
Calling it "friendship" or "relationship" is pointless, one doesn't exclude sex and the other doesn't ensure that sex is there, what are you worried about?
In any case, no one is forcing you to have sex.

Ask yourself whether your desire to want a partner, or to have a connection with this girl, is a thought influenced by ignorance or passion, or whether you have something Divine in mind.

Is it possible to call divine the case when a person turned out to be a spiritual Satanist?

 

[Onbael_]

Is it possible to call divine the case when a person turned out to be a spiritual Satanist?

What I mean is, do you want to have a relationship out of ignorance to escape and avoid problems?
Do you want to have it out of passion, to feel pleasure that end on it self?

Or do you want to have it to exalt Satya in some way?

 

[Stormblood]

I don't see the point in your question.

If you have a connection or want to have a connection with this person, be yourself and do what you think is best.
Calling it "friendship" or "relationship" is pointless, one doesn't exclude sex and the other doesn't ensure that sex is there, what are you worried about?
In any case, no one is forcing you to have sex.

Ask yourself whether your desire to want a partner, or to have a connection with this girl, is a thought influenced by ignorance or passion, or whether you have something Divine in mind.

Not sure where you got the idea that friendship doesn't exclude sex. Sex is only part of purely sexual relationships, and of more complete romantic relationships.

Friendship are called "platonic" because they're inherently non-sexual. The foolish notion of "friends with benefits" is a modern misunderstanding of friendship and boundaries in social relationships.

@Sun Squad

As for as the OP goes, yes, there's no need to have sex with anyone if you don't want to. If you're sexually attracted to someone but don't want to have sex with them, just ignore the sexual attraction, and it will go away eventually. That's what I do with virtually any attractive heterosexual guy, so I can be realistic and also interact as normally as possible with them.

You don't need to sexualise everything, or act upon every whim your body us.

 

[Onbael_]

Not sure where you got the idea that friendship doesn't exclude sex. Sex is only part of purely sexual relationships, and of more complete romantic relationships.

Friendship are called "platonic" because they're inherently non-sexual. The foolish notion of "friends with benefits" is a modern misunderstanding of friendship and boundaries in social relationships.

@Sun Squad

As for as the OP goes, yes, there's no need to have sex with anyone if you don't want to. If you're sexually attracted to someone but don't want to have sex with them, just ignore the sexual attraction, and it will go away eventually. That's what I do with virtually any attractive heterosexual guy, so I can be realistic and also interact as normally as possible with them.

You don't need to sexualise everything, or act upon every whim your body us.

The modern error is the objectification of the person, but otherwise it is all very subjective, and one might as well have sex with a friend but not date him romantically or otherwise without belonging, and one might not.

 

[Stormblood]

The modern error is the objectification of the person, but otherwise it is all very subjective, and one might as well have sex with a friend but not date him romantically or otherwise without belonging, and one might not.

No

 

[Moonlight24]

It's very strange, I saw a cute girl after 1 day of the magic of attracting a partner and I really liked her, but I just want to be friends with her without sex? Like, for example, gays and girls are friends, support and protect her, but at the same time I get excited, can I somehow put a block. excitement from it?

if you liked her, that's already very good. It doesn't often happen when you meet a person you like and you also feel excited. Is it possible to consider this meeting differently? For example, I will not want a man if I know that he will just be a friend.

 

[Havoc]

If you like her and feel excited but you don’t want to instantly have sex you could just court her. I take it there’s more to this then just waiting to be her friend otherwise you wouldn’t have asked for magic to block your emotions or mentioned being excited.

Is there a reason you’re afraid?