VoiceofEnki said:
Maxis Orientis said:
Okay, go join Pissrael then. You'll be on the losing side. Good luck!
I understand this is a highly sensitive topic, however, please do not let emotions affect your judgements or mistake the neutral replies by another member as an offense towards you.
You had really misunderstood what the other member meant to express with his reply, unfortunately this kind of post would only exacerbate completely unnecessary emotional reactions, which are not conducive towards a harmonious atmosphere between members.
Please take a moment to calm your self and reply on a case to case basis. One response by a member in one topic, does not mean they express the same disagreement with your topics in another reply.
If you do believe there is serious offense or anything, remember you can also report a message to the mod team.
Otherwise, try to have conductive discussion between members, and avoid making assumptions based on emotions in your replies if possible.
I'm not familiar with the mod team, which members are mods? I remember contacting the HP a back while (either late September or early October) to get his opinion on a post, he didn't reply - now I'm sure it probably got buried, and to my understanding, he is very busy, again I don't wanna assume any "bad conclusions" and neither am I trying to espouse the HP's name to justify my feelings but it was admittingly gotten my faith in the help team very low.
Now in addressing my heated convos with said-user, I understand what you're saying, but I just find it a "wee-bit" out there that this individual never answered my questions on my old account, or gave me any help, or provided positive comments on topics clearly helpful to the Asian SS, and all of a suddenly wants to play correctional police whenever he finds something "wrong" with my post. Admittingly, I do have an sensitively issue, it's one I am trying to work on, and I've kept my cool for too long, and didn't engage at first but there's a time when I have to put my feet down and speak up.
Let me compare this to a chef, chefs are often stereotyped as being temperamental and prone to angry outbursts, constantly berating the line cooks and kitchen staff. But a good chef knows how to train/help new staff, congratulate his team on "good work", but also learn to be tough and punishing when the team messes up, that's just how a hustle-bustle environment like the kitchen in the works.
In my opinion, what this other individual is doing is NOT that. I wouldn't be having this reaction if he had actually provided me help and other beneficial responses.
For the record, I don't expect people to "agree with me" or play happy "yes man" on every post I make, as I've stated, I been called out before for being wrong, and I have no problem with it. Look on my Chakra Foods post, I've already accepted the fact that the charts were wrong. I also have experience in other forums, I've learned my lesson from those.
But when I see pattern - namely when one "helps" everyone else and then tries to play the bad cop/Agent Smith against me (especially the fact that I'm a
new member, still in a vulnerable state) then I must take a strong suspicion,
especially when this comes from a long-time member, this damages my image before I even get a chance to showcase my service to the Gods, who do you think people will side with in the event of an argument? Certainly not me. The cyber-lynching against me begins there.
My grievance isn't just limited to this "one member" either, any member that does this to me, I take this kind of suspicion against even if they are fellow SS, and others have done it me. There's been 3 in total.