Do you need sex to advance spiritually?

[luis]

I know this is a weird question but I have to ask it, like the title, do you need it? Because I'm gay and I don't live in a place were its easy to be one (Even if better than many) I've never had a boyfriend or someone to have sex with and I always had a high libido, to the point that as a little kid I even tried to do "sexual" things with other kids...(sounds weird and disgusting and I don't even know why I did it).

My first sexual things were a cousin of mine. It's hard to write these things here as I'm disgusted by this, a lot but It happened, and honestly, with the libido that I have and the lack of a partner It could have been much worse...Luckily when I've become an SS and started to heal myself from these hangups. I have to say that now I'm much better and I do understand the wrong thing I did, the problem is no matter how much I masturbate I still have a lot of libidos. It feels to me masturbation is not enough and I probably need a partner but I don't if it will help heal me... I honestly don't know what to do. Do I need a partner? Should I do a spell for it? Will I still advance without having sex? I honestly thought to ask for an Incubus to help me out with this but I don't know if its what I need.

 

[Eric13]

Sex with a partner amplifies energy and also empowers the soul. Now that you’re more spiritually open, if have more sexual experiences you’ll feel it after. Work on your chakras after sex and it’s soo much more powerful.

Even with a demon of course. So it’s up to you. But you owe it to yourself to find a partner if it’s something you want. And doing a working to find something ideal is wise.

 

[imdvnyyy]

i think you can just masturbate, sex is not necessary but it can be so helpful for Kundalini. but masturbation too is helpful

but if you need a partner, you can do a spell or ask for an incubus..

don't worry about these issues, you were influenced by enemy and you were not aware

 

[Shadowcat]

I know this is a weird question but I have to ask it, like the title, do you need it? Because I'm gay and I don't live in a place were its easy to be one (Even if better than many) I've never had a boyfriend or someone to have sex with and I always had a high libido, to the point that as a little kid I even tried to do "sexual" things with other kids...(sounds weird and disgusting and I don't even know why I did it).

My first sexual things were a cousin of mine. It's hard to write these things here as I'm disgusted by this, a lot but It happened, and honestly, with the libido that I have and the lack of a partner It could have been much worse...Luckily when I've become an SS and started to heal myself from these hangups. I have to say that now I'm much better and I do understand the wrong thing I did, the problem is no matter how much I masturbate I still have a lot of libidos. It feels to me masturbation is not enough and I probably need a partner but I don't if it will help heal me... I honestly don't know what to do. Do I need a partner? Should I do a spell for it? Will I still advance without having sex? I honestly thought to ask for an Incubus to help me out with this but I don't know if its what I need.

Sex works in opening the sacral chakra and orgasm energy is good for all the chakras in general. The kundelini itself is very sexual. I think sex is also an important part of the magnum opus if i recall correctly.

If your libido is too high to the point that it bothers you maybe do a working or a cleaning to balance your sacral chakra. If you really think nothing else helps and no other partner will work for you then yes ask Father Satan

 

[Shrouded]

Sex is not neccesary for spiritual advancement but orgasm is. You are a very advanced member and I am sure I need not explain the power orgasms hold and how much it helps us and such. What I would recommend is finding an incubus for yourself as they can not only aid in your spiritual development but can assist you greatly in your clairaudient and clairvoyant centers being opened up by directing all of your sexual energy to opening said centers so you can see and hear them. Love is something we all need in one way or another and considering your situation I believe an Incubus would provid you with just what you desire/need

 

[Aquarius]

Do you masturbate to porn or fantasies?

 

[Apprentice]

I've had way above average libido all my life. I started exploring myself when I was 5 or 6 years old. In the beginning the first orgasms felt weird but totally enjoyable. After some time I started doing it deliberately because it was basically the only thing in my life that made me feel good. There is nothing abnormal about children discovering themselves. Like you, I almost did it with a cousin, too. Luckily nothing happened, just the talk. This would definitely have been very weird but we were children after all, FFS.

In high school I felt like a young rabbit, ready to hump. Unfortunately it was nearly impossible to find a partner with similar urge and a suitable place at this age because everybody lived with their parents.

I consider masturbation a pressure relief valve. At some point the charge of sexual energy gets so strong, you just can't stand the tension. It's like walking around with an overcharged high voltage capacitor in your lower body.

And just like you, I know damn well that the masturbation alone just isn't enough. A great analogy: if you are really starving, a hot dog quenches the first hunger but leaves you craving for more. This is what a quick masturbation mostly feels like. Real sex OTOH feels like a nice 3-course steak dinner. I bet you know damn well what I'm talking about. During high school, I came to enjoy edging. This is way better than a quick jackoff but still not comparable to a real sexual intercourse.

I'm not advanced psychically but I would hazard a guess that sex (or at least pressure relief) is needed in order to advance. I've asked my GD to take the orgasm energy and put it to good use. There are many more ways one could use sexual energy creatively. When I haven't had an orgasm for a while (3, sometimes 6 days), thoughts and cravings about it start messing even with my meditations. Serious rituals can become a steamy peep show and I have to actually force myself to silence thoughts about sex. The other thing that helps is a hectic work schedule and a lot of stress. You will forget you even needed sex, lol :lol:
Just kidding, of course. The energy is still there, growing daily. You just don't feel the need clearly if you know what I mean. When I start acting all moody and ballistic, I know I'm royally late for a relief.

Knowing what I know now, I would have worked myself psychically open back in my 20s and asked myself an succubus partner. Unfortunately there was no Internet or JoS back then.

This is my .02 cents. Take care, Bro.

 

[luis]

Do you masturbate to porn or fantasies?

Kinda both. I don't even have the time to masturbate that much, I do it dealy or I will feel bad but the feeling of wanting to have sex or at least masturbate is something that I have all day, no matter how much I masturbate. I honestly feel like this is an issue from past lives, I'm gay and I'm pretty sure I had some past lives, now imagine being gay during the middle age, or just before 2000. I probably had to hide my self and what I felt.

Sex is not neccesary for spiritual advancement but orgasm is. You are a very advanced member and I am sure I need not explain the power orgasms hold and how much it helps us and such. What I would recommend is finding an incubus for yourself as they can not only aid in your spiritual development but can assist you greatly in your clairaudient and clairvoyant centers being opened up by directing all of your sexual energy to opening said centers so you can see and hear them. Love is something we all need in one way or another and considering your situation I believe an Incubus would provid you with just what you desire/need

I already direct the orgasm energy to open my chakras, the problem is that I always feel excited and I don't know if this is normal. I honestly feel the root problem is that I want to connect to someone, its definitely something that I miss in my life, touching someone physically. This is why I don't know if an incubus is good for me.

I've had way above average libido all my life. I started exploring myself when I was 5 or 6 years old. In the beginning the first orgasms felt weird but totally enjoyable. After some time I started doing it deliberately because it was basically the only thing in my life that made me feel good. There is nothing abnormal about children discovering themselves. Like you, I almost did it with a cousin, too. Luckily nothing happened, just the talk. This would definitely have been very weird but we were children after all, FFS.

In high school I felt like a young rabbit, ready to hump. Unfortunately it was nearly impossible to find a partner with similar urge and a suitable place at this age because everybody lived with their parents.

I consider masturbation a pressure relief valve. At some point the charge of sexual energy gets so strong, you just can't stand the tension. It's like walking around with an overcharged high voltage capacitor in your lower body.

And just like you, I know damn well that the masturbation alone just isn't enough. A great analogy: if you are really starving, a hot dog quenches the first hunger but leaves you craving for more. This is what a quick masturbation mostly feels like. Real sex OTOH feels like a nice 3-course steak dinner. I bet you know damn well what I'm talking about. During high school, I came to enjoy edging. This is way better than a quick jackoff but still not comparable to a real sexual intercourse.

I'm not advanced psychically but I would hazard a guess that sex (or at least pressure relief) is needed in order to advance. I've asked my GD to take the orgasm energy and put it to good use. There are many more ways one could use sexual energy creatively. When I haven't had an orgasm for a while (3, sometimes 6 days), thoughts and cravings about it start messing even with my meditations. Serious rituals can become a steamy peep show and I have to actually force myself to silence thoughts about sex. The other thing that helps is a hectic work schedule and a lot of stress. You will forget you even needed sex, lol :lol:
Just kidding, of course. The energy is still there, growing daily. You just don't feel the need clearly if you know what I mean. When I start acting all moody and ballistic, I know I'm royally late for a relief.

Knowing what I know now, I would have worked myself psychically open back in my 20s and asked myself an succubus partner. Unfortunately there was no Internet or JoS back then.

This is my .02 cents. Take care, Bro.

Yeah we are pretty similar. It's not compleatily normal for a kid to have sexual thoughts, I think this are hangups from past lives. I'm gay and probably in my past lives I've had to hide my feelings and probably did not get to have sex at all. This may be the issue for me. I'm doing a working and I have already did some cleaning for my sacral chakra. It did help me and I'm better than before but It's not over yet. Still wondering if an Incubus is the right choice for me.

 

[Blackdragon666]

I know this is a weird question but I have to ask it, like the title, do you need it? Because I'm gay and I don't live in a place were its easy to be one (Even if better than many) I've never had a boyfriend or someone to have sex with and I always had a high libido, to the point that as a little kid I even tried to do "sexual" things with other kids...(sounds weird and disgusting and I don't even know why I did it).

My first sexual things were a cousin of mine. It's hard to write these things here as I'm disgusted by this, a lot but It happened, and honestly, with the libido that I have and the lack of a partner It could have been much worse...Luckily when I've become an SS and started to heal myself from these hangups. I have to say that now I'm much better and I do understand the wrong thing I did, the problem is no matter how much I masturbate I still have a lot of libidos. It feels to me masturbation is not enough and I probably need a partner but I don't if it will help heal me... I honestly don't know what to do. Do I need a partner? Should I do a spell for it? Will I still advance without having sex? I honestly thought to ask for an Incubus to help me out with this but I don't know if its what I need.

I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. I have always had a high libido since childhood. But I'm not one to just sleep around. I can only sleep with someone I'm deeply in love with, mutual love, and in a relationship with.

When we're kids we can do stupid things. My first kiss was my cousin, embarrassing thing when I look back at it.

I think maybe you should try a working to attract a decent guy. Sounds like you really need a partner.

 

[Aquarius]

I suggest you to quit porn totally first of all. And as for fantasies most of them just come from porn, so you should quit those too. You should focus on your yourself when masturbating, feel your body, feel your arousal(not much if you numbed yourself with porn, eventually it will develop) touch yourself gently, ecc

 

[Shrouded]

Do you masturbate to porn or fantasies?

Kinda both. I don't even have the time to masturbate that much, I do it dealy or I will feel bad but the feeling of wanting to have sex or at least masturbate is something that I have all day, no matter how much I masturbate. I honestly feel like this is an issue from past lives, I'm gay and I'm pretty sure I had some past lives, now imagine being gay during the middle age, or just before 2000. I probably had to hide my self and what I felt.

Sex is not neccesary for spiritual advancement but orgasm is. You are a very advanced member and I am sure I need not explain the power orgasms hold and how much it helps us and such. What I would recommend is finding an incubus for yourself as they can not only aid in your spiritual development but can assist you greatly in your clairaudient and clairvoyant centers being opened up by directing all of your sexual energy to opening said centers so you can see and hear them. Love is something we all need in one way or another and considering your situation I believe an Incubus would provid you with just what you desire/need

I already direct the orgasm energy to open my chakras, the problem is that I always feel excited and I don't know if this is normal. I honestly feel the root problem is that I want to connect to someone, its definitely something that I miss in my life, touching someone physically. This is why I don't know if an incubus is good for me.

I've had way above average libido all my life. I started exploring myself when I was 5 or 6 years old. In the beginning the first orgasms felt weird but totally enjoyable. After some time I started doing it deliberately because it was basically the only thing in my life that made me feel good. There is nothing abnormal about children discovering themselves. Like you, I almost did it with a cousin, too. Luckily nothing happened, just the talk. This would definitely have been very weird but we were children after all, FFS.

In high school I felt like a young rabbit, ready to hump. Unfortunately it was nearly impossible to find a partner with similar urge and a suitable place at this age because everybody lived with their parents.

I consider masturbation a pressure relief valve. At some point the charge of sexual energy gets so strong, you just can't stand the tension. It's like walking around with an overcharged high voltage capacitor in your lower body.

And just like you, I know damn well that the masturbation alone just isn't enough. A great analogy: if you are really starving, a hot dog quenches the first hunger but leaves you craving for more. This is what a quick masturbation mostly feels like. Real sex OTOH feels like a nice 3-course steak dinner. I bet you know damn well what I'm talking about. During high school, I came to enjoy edging. This is way better than a quick jackoff but still not comparable to a real sexual intercourse.

I'm not advanced psychically but I would hazard a guess that sex (or at least pressure relief) is needed in order to advance. I've asked my GD to take the orgasm energy and put it to good use. There are many more ways one could use sexual energy creatively. When I haven't had an orgasm for a while (3, sometimes 6 days), thoughts and cravings about it start messing even with my meditations. Serious rituals can become a steamy peep show and I have to actually force myself to silence thoughts about sex. The other thing that helps is a hectic work schedule and a lot of stress. You will forget you even needed sex, lol :lol:
Just kidding, of course. The energy is still there, growing daily. You just don't feel the need clearly if you know what I mean. When I start acting all moody and ballistic, I know I'm royally late for a relief.

Knowing what I know now, I would have worked myself psychically open back in my 20s and asked myself an succubus partner. Unfortunately there was no Internet or JoS back then.

This is my .02 cents. Take care, Bro.

Yeah we are pretty similar. It's not compleatily normal for a kid to have sexual thoughts, I think this are hangups from past lives. I'm gay and probably in my past lives I've had to hide my feelings and probably did not get to have sex at all. This may be the issue for me. I'm doing a working and I have already did some cleaning for my sacral chakra. It did help me and I'm better than before but It's not over yet. Still wondering if an Incubus is the right choice for me.

I wish I was able to give better advice on this but the best way I could describe it is that you can view orgasms vs sex as food vs your favorite food. We need food(orgasms) to survive but if possible we would love to eat our favorite food(sex). Sex is something that is not just physical but is spiritual. It is a really beautiful thing but it is not something you will die without. If I were in your shoes I would do a working to bring me to a partner. Considering your country make sure you are very careful with things. If possible gather enough whealth to move to a country where you will not be in danger by being yourself(That is extremely important of course)

 

[luis]

I know this is a weird question but I have to ask it, like the title, do you need it? Because I'm gay and I don't live in a place were its easy to be one (Even if better than many) I've never had a boyfriend or someone to have sex with and I always had a high libido, to the point that as a little kid I even tried to do "sexual" things with other kids...(sounds weird and disgusting and I don't even know why I did it).

My first sexual things were a cousin of mine. It's hard to write these things here as I'm disgusted by this, a lot but It happened, and honestly, with the libido that I have and the lack of a partner It could have been much worse...Luckily when I've become an SS and started to heal myself from these hangups. I have to say that now I'm much better and I do understand the wrong thing I did, the problem is no matter how much I masturbate I still have a lot of libidos. It feels to me masturbation is not enough and I probably need a partner but I don't if it will help heal me... I honestly don't know what to do. Do I need a partner? Should I do a spell for it? Will I still advance without having sex? I honestly thought to ask for an Incubus to help me out with this but I don't know if its what I need.

I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. I have always had a high libido since childhood. But I'm not one to just sleep around. I can only sleep with someone I'm deeply in love with, mutual love, and in a relationship with.

When we're kids we can do stupid things. My first kiss was my cousin, embarrassing thing when I look back at it.

I think maybe you should try a working to attract a decent guy. Sounds like you really need a partner.

That is the main issue. I'm already gay which add to the difficulty and then I'm not very social and I basically go out just to work and then go home. A working would help but in the meantime I thought of asking for an incubus (with an open relationship) so at least It will help me get this libido in control. Honestly, I already know most of the answers here but opening up and talking here about my issues already makes me feel better, It's kinda like going to the therapist :lol:

About the cousin thing, I've heard it many times. You are not the only one. Unfortunately, this can happen, when you grow up of course you understand how bad it is. I did not exactly have sex with him (luckily) but got very close...its totaly embarrassing to say but this is the truth and getting it out of me it makes me feel better.

 

[Blackdragon666]

I know this is a weird question but I have to ask it, like the title, do you need it? Because I'm gay and I don't live in a place were its easy to be one (Even if better than many) I've never had a boyfriend or someone to have sex with and I always had a high libido, to the point that as a little kid I even tried to do "sexual" things with other kids...(sounds weird and disgusting and I don't even know why I did it).

My first sexual things were a cousin of mine. It's hard to write these things here as I'm disgusted by this, a lot but It happened, and honestly, with the libido that I have and the lack of a partner It could have been much worse...Luckily when I've become an SS and started to heal myself from these hangups. I have to say that now I'm much better and I do understand the wrong thing I did, the problem is no matter how much I masturbate I still have a lot of libidos. It feels to me masturbation is not enough and I probably need a partner but I don't if it will help heal me... I honestly don't know what to do. Do I need a partner? Should I do a spell for it? Will I still advance without having sex? I honestly thought to ask for an Incubus to help me out with this but I don't know if its what I need.

I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. I have always had a high libido since childhood. But I'm not one to just sleep around. I can only sleep with someone I'm deeply in love with, mutual love, and in a relationship with.

When we're kids we can do stupid things. My first kiss was my cousin, embarrassing thing when I look back at it.

I think maybe you should try a working to attract a decent guy. Sounds like you really need a partner.

That is the main issue. I'm already gay which add to the difficulty and then I'm not very social and I basically go out just to work and then go home. A working would help but in the meantime I thought of asking for an incubus (with an open relationship) so at least It will help me get this libido in control. Honestly, I already know most of the answers here but opening up and talking here about my issues already makes me feel better, It's kinda like going to the therapist :lol:

About the cousin thing, I've heard it many times. You are not the only one. Unfortunately, this can happen, when you grow up of course you understand how bad it is. I did not exactly have sex with him (luckily) but got very close...its totaly embarrassing to say but this is the truth and getting it out of me it makes me feel better.

I bet a working would bring him to you one way or another. Unless someone lives in a cave, a love working should manifest in due time. In case you do a working, you can ask a Demon to help you attract a very suitable/most ideal guy for you.

As you have said you can also try asking for an incubus for now.

I'm glad you feel better. Just for humor, she started really liking me after that day and I had to ignore her for sometime for her to get over it :lol: But nowadays we're good.

 

[luis]

I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. I have always had a high libido since childhood. But I'm not one to just sleep around. I can only sleep with someone I'm deeply in love with, mutual love, and in a relationship with.

When we're kids we can do stupid things. My first kiss was my cousin, embarrassing thing when I look back at it.

I think maybe you should try a working to attract a decent guy. Sounds like you really need a partner.

That is the main issue. I'm already gay which add to the difficulty and then I'm not very social and I basically go out just to work and then go home. A working would help but in the meantime I thought of asking for an incubus (with an open relationship) so at least It will help me get this libido in control. Honestly, I already know most of the answers here but opening up and talking here about my issues already makes me feel better, It's kinda like going to the therapist :lol:

About the cousin thing, I've heard it many times. You are not the only one. Unfortunately, this can happen, when you grow up of course you understand how bad it is. I did not exactly have sex with him (luckily) but got very close...its totaly embarrassing to say but this is the truth and getting it out of me it makes me feel better.

I bet a working would bring him to you one way or another. Unless someone lives in a cave, a love working should manifest in due time. In case you do a working, you can ask a Demon to help you attract a very suitable/most ideal guy for you.

As you have said you can also try asking for an incubus for now.

I'm glad you feel better. Just for humor, she started really liking me after that day and I had to ignore her for sometime for her to get over it :lol: But nowadays we're good.

I will definitely do a working but I think for now I will ask for an Incubus (which is the male version).
Those things unfortunately can happen, now I do understand logically why you should not do it but at the time I was a teen. Heck even now that I understand it logically and would never do it, I can't say i would not get excited, because I have too much libido. Still I'm at a point were I would just ignore it, void my mind and let it go but I have to have sex or I don't think I can live like this.