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Here is good post on how to sublimate Mars:
For anyone with an emphasis on "military" as a career in their natal charts, keep in mind that traditionally, the military had full duty over putting out fires, security, rescue, and other tasks in the country. So when it says "military aptitude/talent" in a natal chart, these also include other...
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Mars is all about power and desire to use this power. Aggressive, decisive, combative, ready to accept the challenge. This all are absolutely necessary energies to build the healthy society: just look how Europe is suffering without these energies - enjoy the life without Mars:
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Mars is our army, police, every husband, father, brother and son in every family. The key here is to sublimate it right: into saving, protecting, chivalry - all based on Mars, being White Knight to everyone, starting with your family and Race, do Lord Andras ritual to enjoy higher Martial energies, I assure you there is NO more pleasure in the world than them. These are paradise energies of highest safety. You can sublimate it all into the relationship with this person - the Martial energies will come from you. This is good if you are a man and they are a woman - then you can sublimate it into protecting and providing for her all her life.
Mars with their Nodes shows that this person will trigger some Martial protective instincts in you, either protective
from them or protective
towards them from all outer world as husband usually does. The realization of this also depends on the position of your Mars.
The great thing I found about Mars (this is the example with Uranus):
"Sublimating Mars/Uranus energies can be done through hard work. This can be upsetting and even exhausting, but it is a positive outlet for these energies."
- High Priestess Maxine
I have recently seen in quite a few solar returns, for people as well as countries, SR Uranus opposite SR Mars. Pluto and Saturn also make aspects, either through square, trine, or inconjunct. I know these planets aspecting each other can indicate violence/war. Does anyone else have any thoughts...
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As for Saturn, it also has some fatherly realizations. Saturn is parental by nature, it can protect a person by restricting them from harming themselves. I saw such very high vibrational synastry where there are mutual Saturn-CR tight aspects. But the restricting energy is still very strong and needs conscious directing into healthy ways, or people can feel strangled for lifetime in some of their potentials, because Saturn tends to restrict everything regardless.
Try to either consciously not mess into their life, or be a Guardian to them protecting them from bad things such as bad company, drugs etc, if they are your child or someone in a position of a protegee. Saturn is a power position, it always tend to work like a patron. You may make sure it to be used only for the good.
We have to understand that all the above works only if we are in a position of such realizations. For example if you yourself are a woman or a child (respectively with Mars and Saturn) to this person and he is an adult man or a power-position towards you this will not work that way or only when you become adult and they age or in any other way you begin to have any power over them.
This is also might be used for saving lives via surgeries and other extreme intervention (I mean mostly Mars or Pluto here but Saturn as well because Saturn is responsibility).
Saturn = responsibility which it predominantly teaches and represents. So being Saturn to someone is best realized via taking responsibility over them. Being Saturn to your country (10h) is best realized via being her president and serving her all your life.
Again, be careful if you are woman or child - you obviously should not. Everything that is said about this or that placement should be taken with rationality. If you are a child with Saturn on their N you might feel like following your own ideals rather then listening to everything they say, or being rather skeptical of their views or words. This also should be sublimated into best and most rational things, not brainless irrational disobedience. Better just using critical thinking and minding your own business.
Remember that you are not obligated to mess into their lives at all, unless extreme responsibility cases take place such as that with you taking care of the underage, elderly, pregnant, helpless etc.