Relationships #76517 Anxiety about first sexual experience

[AskSatanOperator]

I would like to briefly summarize the situation.

I'm in a relationship that I've only known for two days and we progressed incredibly fast, from the very first day we were in harmony as if we had known each other for years -when I looked at our synastry I saw that my Moon was conjunct his South Node in Scorpio- and we progressed incredibly fast.

Now, this boy is muslim. He admits that his faith is not deep and he does not fully believe in it, but he is a muslim and he says I will never give up my decision. I feel that this will change when I pray, but I haven't prayed yet. Let me come to the point. But that's why I don't trust him fully.

He has a Scorpio stellium in his first house. Venus, Mercury and Sun in Scorpio in his 1st house. Mars in Pisces in the 5th house. My Moon is conjunct his Venus.
As I suspect the presence of third parties, I give these details because he has a deep desire to keep our relationship secret. He doesn't want us to be in the "news", he believes in the evil eye, tons of excuses.

He also says that he highly values virginity and that he himself is a virgin man, but I sense a cunning also in this. Moreover, he is quite willing to experience sexuality with me. I think he's really attracted to me, I feel the same way about him, even his breathing makes me wet. But I'm scared, and my intuition is in the middle. I have tons of doubts. I don't know these attitudes of his is really because of his chart, all these doubts and more, or if he has bad intentions towards me.

I'm afraid of having sex. He thinks my face is beautiful, I'm sure, but I'm also afraid of what if he doesn't like my body.

What can I do about this situation? How can I be sure? I tried Tarot, it's obvious he is lying about something. But I do not understand what's about.

 

[SomewhatCoherent]

The way you write that it sounds like he is just trying to hook up. Don't do anything you don't want to do because you feel pressure, in the moment its easy to get affected by the initial attraction. Smarter members can probably help with the astrology chart. If you have this much doubt you can try to play it slow and get more information about whatever the secret is. If he actually cares about you he can wait more than a few days to have sex.

 

[Lightning_Puma]

Take it from somebody who was forced into sex when I was younger - DON'T DO IT WITH HIM!!!

The way you do not trust him and he is clearly lying about something and how your own intuition is telling you to not trust him - Run. Run far away from him.

Focus on your meditations and removing negative karma and then do a working to attract the right man to yourself. The right partner.

For now, you could just buy a toy to pleasure yourself so you don't get pressured into sex.

You will regret it if you get too much under pressure to have sex with somebody you do not fully trust. You only known him for 2 days.

If you're looking for a nightstand, then that's a different topic altogether.

Please stay safe and do not give in to somebody pressuring you into sex!

 

[HPS Lydia]

I've read about Scorpio nodes conjunct personal planets in synsastry, it's not always good. Just because there's a conjunction, doesn't mean that person is right for you. 360 degrees in the chart, that means 3 in 360 people will have that aspect with you (1 degree before, after, and directly on), and way more for a looser aspect, even just 5 degrees. That's actually a lot of people, if you do the math.

Now, he says he values virginity, but wants to have sex with you. So, he wants your virginity, just for the ego gratification.

Also, when someone wants to keep a relationship secret, it's never for an innocent reason. It's because he has a wife, girlfriend, or just wants a quick affair without involving parents.

In many situations, it's better to be safe and not have regrets. He's a muzlim male, you will probably regret it.

 

[MercuryWisdom]

I would like to briefly summarize the situation.

I'm in a relationship that I've only known for two days and we progressed incredibly fast, from the very first day we were in harmony as if we had known each other for years -when I looked at our synastry I saw that my Moon was conjunct his South Node in Scorpio- and we progressed incredibly fast.

Now, this boy is muslim. He admits that his faith is not deep and he does not fully believe in it, but he is a muslim and he says I will never give up my decision. I feel that this will change when I pray, but I haven't prayed yet. Let me come to the point. But that's why I don't trust him fully.

He has a Scorpio stellium in his first house. Venus, Mercury and Sun in Scorpio in his 1st house. Mars in Pisces in the 5th house. My Moon is conjunct his Venus.
As I suspect the presence of third parties, I give these details because he has a deep desire to keep our relationship secret. He doesn't want us to be in the "news", he believes in the evil eye, tons of excuses.

He also says that he highly values virginity and that he himself is a virgin man, but I sense a cunning also in this. Moreover, he is quite willing to experience sexuality with me. I think he's really attracted to me, I feel the same way about him, even his breathing makes me wet. But I'm scared, and my intuition is in the middle. I have tons of doubts. I don't know these attitudes of his is really because of his chart, all these doubts and more, or if he has bad intentions towards me.

I'm afraid of having sex. He thinks my face is beautiful, I'm sure, but I'm also afraid of what if he doesn't like my body.

What can I do about this situation? How can I be sure? I tried Tarot, it's obvious he is lying about something. But I do not understand what's about.

Don’t trust a muslim.

 

[Stolas216]

I live in a Muslim community and I know their mentality very well. I warn you against having a sexual relationship with them. Don't do it, it's a trap. Without marriage contracts, don't do it. He will leave you after he gets what he wants.

 

[AskSatanOperator]

Thank you everyone! I broke up with him yesterday, I saw his face again and immediately felt nauseation. He suddenly appeared to me so, so ugly.
And now I am reading your replies.

He was not afraid to be seen together in public, but he had serious problems with sharing the relationship with others, I thought the Scorpio's benefit could be this passion about privacy, but I will take what you said into consideration from now on, in all relationships. Now, it's obvious he could tell others that I am his cousin, sister or something else. Thank you all very, very much.

 

[AskSatanOperator]

I've read about Scorpio nodes conjunct personal planets in synsastry, it's not always good. Just because there's a conjunction, doesn't mean that person is right for you. 360 degrees in the chart, that means 3 in 360 people will have that aspect with you (1 degree before, after, and directly on), and way more for a looser aspect, even just 5 degrees. That's actually a lot of people, if you do the math.

Now, he says he values virginity, but wants to have sex with you. So, he wants your virginity, just for the ego gratification.

Also, when someone wants to keep a relationship secret, it's never for an innocent reason. It's because he has a wife, girlfriend, or just wants a quick affair without involving parents.

In many situations, it's better to be safe and not have regrets. He's a muzlim male, you will probably regret it.

I think I skipped this in my other message... Thank you dear High Priestess for answering me, thank you so much really. That means a lot.

I hope one day I can act and think more wisely in relationship matters like you. Is there any other way than experience? Because I really don't get wiser. Since I was 15 - I'm about to be 20 now - I've been subjected to almost the same situations over and over again, but nothing changes. If I wasn't SS and if I didn't have intuition and dreams, I would be dead by now.

 

[HPS Lydia]

I think I skipped this in my other message... Thank you dear High Priestess for answering me, thank you so much really. That means a lot.

I hope one day I can act and think more wisely in relationship matters like you. Is there any other way than experience? Because I really don't get wiser. Since I was 15 - I'm about to be 20 now - I've been subjected to almost the same situations over and over again, but nothing changes. If I wasn't SS and if I didn't have intuition and dreams, I would be dead by now.

Wisdom comes later, you're still young. But you can work more on your chakras and connecting to your Guardian Demon, and trance, this helps with wisdom, as does observing life and reality and thinking it all over more.

You can do a working to attract the most suitable partner to you. Venus is going Rx soon, so check the dates in the SS Calendar for when to begin a working.