Astrology is not a death sentence. But information about what's going on with you so you can handle things. The Gods also can help you on this if the situation is too much bigger than you.
It depends on the sublimation of energies and the quality and power of your soul.
Pluto in the seventh house can give a very intense and deeply satisfying relationship if the energies are correctly sublimated and be transformative in a positive way for the spiritual advancement of the person.
It is advisable to work with the energies of Venus more directly and develop spiritual power for how it influences relationships especially couple relationships