Relationships #75614 i am too weak emotionally

[AskSatanOperator]

so i went out with this guy today, and i only then found out he is 25 years old (i am 19), and he also tried to kiss me tree times, one (and final) one of which i declined. i am someone who moves very slowly with people as it takes me time to get comfortable around people, even new friends, colleagues etc. i also told him that and i told him i am not a 100% sure whether im looking for something serious or casual.
i didnt feel that uncomfortable sitting close to him afterwards but right now, as im leaving im thinking to myself damn this is not a good idea at all. i feel like we are on completely different stages of life and he kept asking weird ass unrelated questions about politics and his appreciation for soviet music and whatever not. i also feel like hes so much more educated than me on so many things it makes me feel STUPID and i really dont think this can go anywhere. the thing is, im not scared to tell him just that ('we're on different pages and i dont think its gonna go anywhere") but i feel like i am mostly scared to accept and work on the things i realized about myself during this, which is, i need to stand up for myself more and i have a lot of topics i want to learn about still. it makes me feel incompetent in life. i just need some advice on what to do

 

[Ol argedco luciftias]

Stay away from him. You can find better people. Don't do anything that you are not comfortable with.

 

[Rroco88]

Since you are not sure if you want something serious or casual, maybe take some time to yourself until you figure that out.

Get to know yourself better first, to get to love yourself, do things for yourself such as meditating and taking care of your body, and just enjoy the process.

The fact that his interests made you feel "stupid" shows you really didn't take much time to love yourself, or enough to understand that someone else's abundance in information should not make you uncomfortable, but rather motivated to start understanding the world better yourself.

This mentality, along with other such details, shows self-love. If you don't have self love, how can you expect someone else to love you? Long term this kind of mentality that you have will sabotage you in your relationships and not only. So from woman to woman, take time for yourself.

 

[molly]

He is a pervert. Stay away from him, sweetheart. A 25-year-old fully developed male, wouldn’t have such expectations from a 19-year-old girl. Trying to kiss you three times is harassment. If you were my daughter, I would fuck his face up.